No! Do not contact her. Either you have blown it irreparably, in which case you should not contact her, or her interest level has suffered a major setback but can still be re-raised, in which case you should also not contact her but let her contact you. It's counter-intuitive, I know, but female interest level in a man is dependent on the man being a challenge - hard to get and hard to keep - and any move on your part now would be anti-challenge.I am not going to attempt to contact her for several days, just going to leave her be like I should have done and she wanted me to do the last several days. When wednesday or thursday rolls around I am going to buy some flowers and leave them by her door with a note if she hasn't contacted me by then.
I hope she does contact you and that you have slowed down by then so things work out, but if not: Next time find an INTJ. (Here's why.)