Dig deeper into who we are, try to understand how we work, and just show us that we are relevant.
It really doesn't take much if you actually care and appreciate an ENFJ. We just want some of the effort/depth to be reciprocated. Words are enough or even small gestures.
Just be aware, basically. We're usually not throw-away people and that's usually how we're treated.
Usually, i won't guilt people into reassuring me if they don't seem to see it. I'll still be thinking it though. Manipulation tactic that needs to be controlled, basically.