Help me type someone pleeze....
*Young adult male
*High school drop out
*Has girlfriend(+1 year) and moved hundreds of miles from home to be with her(she's in college)
*Brags that girlfriend's BF/roomie is trying to sleep with him(claimed to have moved out of gf's place to avoid cheating) BUT-
*Attempts to physically cheat on GF right in her face
*Often seems to bubble over with joy(even has a little bounce to his walk)
*Flirts with all the ladies(old, young, ugly, cute...)
*Has developed a close relationship with my baby cousin(she seems very ENFP) and according to her, he has shared very private details of his life. That seemed surprising to me, because he seems to generally lack seriousness.
*According to my little cuz, he had a bad childhood, expressed that he hates his mother, parents are divorced and drug users(has used coke with both parents before), and he has a little sister at home(the only reason he states he even talks to his mother is to talk to his sister) He told my cousin that he wants to get his sister out of his mother's house
*He seems more outgoing than my cousin, and takes along to make rounds at parties
*According to what my cousin said that he told her, he uses drugs frequently, and seemingly uses whatever he can get his hands on(has a coke preference). Apparently he sees some of this as problematic, because he turns to my cousin for moral support when he feels he used too much.
*He has not tried to pressure her for sex, but he clearly wants some type of sexual relationship with her
*They sit and talk for hours and hours about "everything" according to her
*He is extremely sweet to me, and also has made an effort to get to know her mother(my sister).
*He wants to know all about our family
*He doesn't talk about the future of their relationship, but seems to assume that he will keep his gf(whose car he drives because he doesn't have his own) and also date my cousin
*My baby cousin is very smart(going to college), so it seems he likes college-educated women even though he dropped out of HS
*He has gone without a job for an extended period of time
*At work, he is apparently very good with customers. Getting down on their level to speak to them, smiling a lot, being attentive, and trying to meet their needs
*My cousin did state though that sometimes it seems he has a weak moral compass. For example, he worked at a restaurant for a time and dropped a spoon onto a dirty floor, and put it back into the serving dish citing that he didn't care because he didn't know the people and they didn't know he did it
*He has said some blatantly inappropriate things to people from what I hear, always apologizing, but still...
*He cracks a lot of jokes, and nothing seems to be off limits. My LC had to nearly break up a fight between this guy and another guy because this guy made a racial joke
*He and my cousin sit around listening to music and discussing it together
*He seems to dress well. Sometimes slightly peacocking with a flashy shirt. From what I've seen though, he dresses according to the trends, and accessorizes(hats, glasses, necklaces, sometimes diamond studs in his ears)
*He's a good speaker, a bad speller, but sends my cousin cute notes to pass the time when they are at work
*I'm confused between the F and T because frequently he seems to completely disregard the feelings of others as my cousin describes him, but he also seems incredibly sensitive to the her feelings, that of his sister, and other select people
My cousin is 18, and she and this guy spend nearly all of their time together. He is extremely sweet to her, and has no problem telling her how he feels about her(thinks/dreams about her, is crazy about her, etc...) She considers ethics all the time, and he follows her lead if she points out something he is doing that seems to be insensitive. He seems to have a lot of respect for her and she him as well, and frankly the two of them work very well together and take cues from each other well too. Anyway, interested in knowing what type you guys think he is. Again, I'm pretty sure my cousin is an ENFP.