[ENFJ] Positive Qualities of ENFJs

[Littlelostnf]

I have one ENFJ friend who I really like.
He just sorta defines cool.
Pretty funny.
Usually has a relaxed laid back attitude.
Good listener.
Good at teaching.
Usually when I spend time with people they start to really get on my nerves.
But it's not like that with my ENFJ friend.
Able to talk openly and intelligently about deep stuff.
He's the only one in our group of friends who is extroverted though, so he is more introverted than the usual ENFJ I think.
Just that sort of person who is calm and smart, and that's the type of people I like.

Totally off topic but I really like your avatar.

 

[Jeffster]

Well if you don't speak our language perhaps you just didn't understand the goodbye

Yep, you're probly right. I'd like to think I'm fluent in NF language by now, but I'd probly just be deluding myself.

 

[Littlelostnf]

Yep, you're probly right. I'd like to think I'm fluent in NF language by now, but I'd probly just be deluding myself.

It's a simple yet beautiful language...if you want to understand it, you must listen with your heart. (yes I would like some crackers to go with my cheese)

 

[DigitalMethod]

Totally off topic but I really like your avatar.

Thanks ...
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[Jeffster]

It's a simple yet beautiful language...if you want to understand it, you must listen with your heart. (yes I would like some crackers to go with my cheese)

See, SF language is a heart language too, but it's got more concretely defined words. The NF dictionary seems to keep being updated and the definitions keep changing!

 

[Littlelostnf]

See, SF language is a heart language too, but it's got more concretely defined words. The NF dictionary seems to keep being updated and the definitions keep changing!

I will speak to the NF Dictionary Master about that. But you know we NF's gotta keep it movin or things get boring and lord knows what kinda trouble we'll get in if we get bored. Concrete...I don't know that word.

 

[Domino]

We seem to exist in a realm that is constantly changing yet demands definition. It's confusing even for us, and I pity those on the outside (meaning anyone not privy to my unspoken thoughts) who have to understand. It's like having a storm roll through, and I can't control it.

 

[Littlelostnf]

We seem to exist in a realm that is constantly changing yet demands definition. It's confusing even for us, and I pity those on the outside (meaning anyone not privy to my unspoken thoughts) who have to understand. It's like having a storm roll through, and I can't control it.

sigh....

 

[Domino]

sigh....

*knowing look* Kleenex?

 

[The Ü™]

They're really fun to pick on.

 

[Domino]

You don't know any.

 

[The Ü™]

Actually I had one friend in college and fellow art student who tested as ENFJ. She was really artsy. She was hawt!

She also told me I was a good artist. But like I am with any ENFJ, I suspected her compliments were empty and insincere.

 

[Venom]

Actually I had one friend in college and fellow art student who tested as ENFJ. She was really artsy. She was hawt!

She also told me I was a good artist. But like I am with any ENFJ, I suspected her compliments were empty and insincere.

{...waits for the juicy details of the HOT rendezvous that occured later than night...}

....or no? ....no "fun time" ever came to pass





wow i didnt notice the secret message till the quote!

 

[Littlelostnf]

Actually I had one friend in college and fellow art student who tested as ENFJ. She was really artsy. She was hawt!

She also told me I was a good artist. But like I am with any ENFJ, I suspected her compliments were empty and insincere.

And your suspicions of ENFJ's will continue to keep you from experiencing a taste of heaven on earth (or at least feeling a warm glow from a sincere compliment)...the next guy she complimented thanks you...