Actually I had one friend in college and fellow art student who tested as ENFJ. She was really artsy. She was hawt!
She also told me I was a good artist. But like I am with any ENFJ, I suspected her compliments were empty and insincere.
And your suspicions of ENFJ's will continue to keep you from experiencing a taste of heaven on earth (or at least feeling a warm glow from a sincere compliment)...the next guy she complimented thanks you...
for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.