I'd go way out of my way to get a girl, but not for anything else. I am extremely lazy, but would chase a girl if I really liked her. But I'd only run after her if I knew that she secretly liked me and was really playing hard-to-get.
But if it was too intense, and I have doubts if she really liked me or not, then I just fade out. I don't have the courage and the motivation to make girls like me by chasing them all over and not letting them breathe.
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?
Hard to get? Only she gives me some signals that she is remotely interested other than that I hate being a pain and chasing down someone more so if its for romantic reasons. I just don't like "annoying" people so it might not be best to do it on me if you have some sort of interest.
If you read this I am sorry to say that you just lost 5 seconds of your life that you wont be getting back.*
If it's done in an obvious joking kind of way then that's cool.
If done for the purpose of "increasing worth" or "avoid looking like a ho" then that's just counterproductive and retarded. I see nothing sexy about strong arming someone into a relationship.
Unfortuantely it seems to be "a reasonable course of action" in our society, since we are still feeling the effects of various puritan values from the dark ages.
but you like it when Synarch strong arms you...
I agree with all that you said, surprise surprise... It has to be understood that it's playful and joking. I don't want people who don't want me, and I don't want to push someone away that I really want.