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  • ENTJ

    3 18.75%
  • INTJ

    2 12.50%
  • ENTP

    3 18.75%
  • INTP

    4 25.00%
  • ENFJ

    2 12.50%
  • ENFP

    2 12.50%
  • INFJ

    2 12.50%
  • INFP

    6 37.50%
  • ISFJ

    0 0%
  • ISTJ

    1 6.25%
  • ESFJ

    0 0%
  • ESTJ

    1 6.25%
  • ISFP

    1 6.25%
  • ISTP

    2 12.50%
  • ESFP

    0 0%
  • ESTP

    1 6.25%
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  1. #11
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    This seems true of Fe women. As Fi-dom, I am not that emotionally demonstrative, yet, I am sensitive, so the softness of an F guy is complementary. Fe-dom women seem to do well with a Ti guy to ground them a bit.
    This may sound silly, but we have a grey tabby cat named Bonhomie. He's very big and sweet, and a very polite quiet sort of gentleman. He's alert, and somewhat skittish in general, so you have to be gentle with him, on your best behavior. We typed him [this is the silly part, I guess] as an INFP. When I go outside, he waits patiently for me to come around to him, and I spend most of my time patting him compared to the other cats. He likes to go to our usual spot on the railing to meet me, and will chatter a bit when he sees me at the door. I've never had a cat prefer me to any of my family members. It's actually kinda obvious and funny. My mother says it's just my "vibe" he prefers and that he'll be all agitated until I come out and then he gets calm.

    I know. Weird example. But what stuck out to me was the "but he gets calm with Pink". I do that too - certain types influence me that way without trying. Some jack me up, some make me settle down, like I naturally defer to them.

    Something like a twitchy race horse with a pony next to it to keep it calm.

    Quote Originally Posted by SpottingTrains View Post
    I agree with this :>
    She really does anchor him. He can be super-charged.

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    And the INFP wins .

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    Is it stereotypical for a male to be more pressured into being a romantic than a female? In popular media, it's always the guy who swoons. The girl sits back, sees the feathers, and decides if this peacock (no pun intended, haha) has all the right colors.
    "In the game of chess, you can never let your opponent see your pieces."

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    Along the lines of what Pink was speaking of - I find INFJs to be grounding. Grinding...Groundering...

    You know what I mean.

    Plus, NFs tend to be artsy so I like their style.

    Other ENXPs can be very uplifting and make me feel "on" if that makes sense.

    Nothing against INFPs - but...really? They're winning the poll??? I guess all the people who complain about INFPs in the "hate" thread haven't found this poll yet.
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    Since I'm someone that often wanders in and thinks something about the skewing of the polls based on population statistics, here's a fact for you all.

    ENFJs are apparently the least common Intuiting type on this forum, and the only Intuiting type less common than any particular Sensing type (there are more ISTJs than ENFJs).

    Okay, toodles.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Poriferan View Post
    Since I'm someone that often wanders in and thinks something about the skewing of the polls based on population statistics, here's a fact for you all.

    ENFJs are apparently the least common Intuiting type on this forum, and the only Intuiting type less common than any particular Sensing type (there are more ISTJs than ENFJs).

    Okay, toodles.

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    I suspect there are more ENFJ males voting vs females.

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    Everyone needs to stop qualifying the INFP win! Let us win, dammit!
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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    Nothing against INFPs - but...really? They're winning the poll??? I guess all the people who complain about INFPs in the "hate" thread haven't found this poll yet.
    Uh, that's the male ENFJs voting INFP and INFPs coming in and voting for themselves, lol.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lookin4theBestNU View Post
    Yes there is some variety. I personally can't see myself attracted to another NF for very long or most F types. It would seem too familiar.
    What she said. I need my I and T
    for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.

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