Are there some innate issues between INTJs and INFJs in terms of communication/motive/disagreement?
My IRL INFJ is awesome, beautiful, tough, and very independent yet really deep in that beautiful INFJ way. She sailed her sailboat across part of the Atlantic all alone. (She is single too, you silly ENTPs)
However she got in a huge fight with an INTJ that I also like very much.
It tunrs out they have a history of not agreeing with one another. She feels as though he is being condescending.
The latest disagreement to me seemed very trivial. He heard a number. He restated the number factually and concluded it meant poor results-incorrectly. She then seemed to read a huge amount into it and get far more upset than I expected.
Is there a theme of INTJ-INFJ interactions having issues with miscommunication?