I have been thinking about two particular individuals in my life and though I consider them to be ESFPs from time to time I am questioning my typing skills and am thinking: "Might they be ENFJs instead?" Perhaps I am completely on the wrong track (so please correct me) but let me explain.
Both guys (let's call them Australian dude and English dude for clarification) have never met each other but are very similar in many respects. Both of them are natural womanizers (though English dude is a devout Christian so he keeps himself in check despite having big womanizer potential), one smile and charming wink of them can turn several generations of women into giggly fangirls.
Both love travelling and exploring and most of the time they look like they just stepped of a surfboard (Australian dude is at the moment riding his bike from London, UK to Melbourne, Australia with his fiancee, as you do ) and both are underneath the charming, smiley exterior very sensitive and emotionally intelligent.
They are both definitely extroverts and feelers and my immediate impression was that they are ESFPs but the following things made me wonder if they might be ENFJs instead (I don't think they are ESFJs, I just don't get a guardian vibe from them at all): Both have told me (and also proven it on different occasions) that they love to plan and organize things in advance which seems very Jish to me (but perhaps I am also just prejudiced towards ESFPs, I was once travelling with an ESFP friend of mine and it felt a bit like travelling with a child since she just couldn't plan very far ahead or see the bigger picture). I mean if you want to ride your bike for one year all over the world you have to think about visa details, border restrictions, injections etc in advance!
Also especially English dude's main characteristic is that he is incredibly encouraging in everything he says, which I would consider more of an Fe than an Fi thing (again correct me if I am wrong). I remember the very first time I met him (in a small group setting) he walked up to me, introduced himself, asked me about myself and then very attentively without any interuptions listened to what I had to say for about 15 minutes. And no he wasn't trying to hit on me, he was in a relationship at the time.
Could an ENFJ's tertiary Se make them appear like an ESFP? Just wondering.