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    Default Male ENFP + Female INFJ = ?

    So, an ENFP male and an INFJ female. How would that relationship work out?
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    beware of the ni!!!!! haha kidding it should be cool. good luck to ya.
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    I would like to know too. I'm interested in an INFJ (could be INFP). My INFJ friend once we get going, well, it's an INTENSE conversation. Though I'm 100% sure he thinks I talk too much. But I ask him and he says he doesn't mind. But I'd like to know how it'd work out in a relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Clonester View Post
    I would like to know too. I'm interested in an INFJ (could be INFP). My INFJ friend once we get going, well, it's an INTENSE conversation. Though I'm 100% sure he thinks I talk too much. But I ask him and he says he doesn't mind. But I'd like to know how it'd work out in a relationship.
    I can listen to conversations or people talking or whatever for a looong time, unless it gets annoying. Then I'll either leave or tell the offender to quiet down OR change the subject.

    If I can relate to the ENFP we kick off almost instantly. If I can't, nothing really happens besides maybe a bit of attraction. I haven't met an ENFP that's marriage worthy yet, though. I like mellow people. When an ENFP gets mellow I get paranoid: "Oh crap, did I do something to offend them? " And still stay wary even when they almost literally hop back into their high-on-life self.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Skyward View Post
    I can listen to conversations or people talking or whatever for a looong time, unless it gets annoying. Then I'll either leave or tell the offender to quiet down OR change the subject.

    If I can relate to the ENFP we kick off almost instantly. If I can't, nothing really happens besides maybe a bit of attraction. I haven't met an ENFP that's marriage worthy yet, though. I like mellow people. When an ENFP gets mellow I get paranoid: "Oh crap, did I do something to offend them? " And still stay wary even when they almost literally hop back into their high-on-life self.
    hehe, we can be a little energetic at times. Like this morning, I was insanely tired, but I was still being an ENFP, hahaha. The person I was driving with was like, wow, you're not tired at all, are you? And I was like, what? Noway, I'm wayyyy tired, just naturally energetic. Bwahahaha!

    But yes, I'm gonna see my wonderful INFJ tonight... hopefully. From what I see so far, things work out VERY well between us. She's really something special. INFJ's are wonderful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.Dude View Post
    hehe, we can be a little energetic at times. Like this morning, I was insanely tired, but I was still being an ENFP, hahaha. The person I was driving with was like, wow, you're not tired at all, are you? And I was like, what? Noway, I'm wayyyy tired, just naturally energetic. Bwahahaha!

    But yes, I'm gonna see my wonderful INFJ tonight... hopefully. From what I see so far, things work out VERY well between us. She's really something special. INFJ's are wonderful.
    You're lucky. All the INFJs I know are either out of my league or out of my reach. And the ENFPs I know I don't relate to or are male. I have yet to find that perfect INTP girl either

    May the relationship turn out well
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    I've been dating an INFJ girl for over a year and a half and for the most part its great. She's tremendously sensitive, very compassionate and loyal. I guess our biggest problem is communication; she has a lot of trouble expressing her feelings, which can be frustrating when you're trying to have those "state of the relationship" discussions which I'm probably more fond of than I ought to be. I guess that's really the only barrier: I always want to talk things out and she has difficulty doing that. Also, if possible check your insecurities at the door, because INFJ's aren't big on ego-padding compliments. To them talk is cheap, so if you're expecting affection to be expressed verbally that may not happen as often as you'd like. For me talk is the relationship's currency, so that's another difficulty.
    However, she really is an amazing listener. Its funny because we're both the kind of people who have people approaching us with their problems, but we handle them with completely different approaches. She listens, listens, listens, whereas I ask probing questions and actively try to get the person to confront their feelings directly.
    If you want somebody to listen to your rants, and be excited by your passion, an INFJ will be perfect. They love to see the passion in others, and whatever your interests are, the INFJ will encourage you to embrace them wholeheartedly.
    All in all, INFJ's are lovely people. There are difficulties (for me anyway) in maintaining an openly communicative relationship, but their warmth, kindness, and insightfulness more than make up for those difficulties.

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    Well... I find it easy to talk openly with her, and she's really been opening up to me lately as well. Not sure what this means though, cause it looks like INFJ's aren't all that openly communicative, whereas, with me, she is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.Dude View Post
    Well... I find it easy to talk openly with her, and she's really been opening up to me lately as well. Not sure what this means though, cause it looks like INFJ's aren't all that openly communicative, whereas, with me, she is.
    She's definitely comfortable with you, which is a good thing for her.

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    Wow. It's always been my dream to end up with an INFJ. I'm so insanely attracted to their personality it isn't funny. INFPs too, but INFJs really get me going.
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