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    Let's all just start reading "INFJs" as "most INFJs, from what I know" and get on with some actual meaningful discussion

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    Quote Originally Posted by greed View Post
    Let's all just start reading "INFJs" as "most INFJs, from what I know" and get on with some actual meaningful discussion

    How about just "What I know is......"? capiche?
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    personality page lists INFJ and ENFP as natural partners, whatever that means

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    One of the happiest IRL pairings I believe I have ever seen is an ENFP male/INFJ female.

    The wife is independent and okay with being left at home alone while her husband goes out and has coffee/talks to everybody in town every day. She doesn't appear to be threatened by his gregariousness -- he is gregarious to the point of almost flirting with everybody in a Southern Gentleman sort of way, if that makes sense, which speaks of her not having a major insecurity problem.

    He is really accepting of her need for alone time and, even though he has a public kind of job, he's not always trying to push her into the limelight, though he does publicly praise her and make it very clear that he adores her.

    I think respect and acceptance along with strong mutual attraction/genuine like/admiration are essential to a happy relationship and I see that in play with this couple. Having shared values and a common goal are also very much in play -- they have owned and operated a restaurant together and have also pastored a church, which is kind of like running a family business.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aphrodite-gone-awry View Post
    My experience with an enfp male friend: I can connect with him on that intuitive plane and we have a lot of the same ideas about living and ideals for society, and can have nice discussions, but he is so scattered much of the time living as an extravert who likes to connect deeply with as many people as possible, that he ends up stretching himself so thin, that when I'm around him, I feel like I only have a small time allotment before he needs to move on to something/one else.
    This so much. Same experience I had. I enjoyed being around him, so smart and funny. But when it was just he and I away from his usual audience and we found out we shared a temperament, I felt like he wanted to get down to bonding on that level pretty quick and it was a little disconcerting for me. He was (and is) great but I felt a little like he was always performing for his audiences. He just naturally captivated people, thats all. We exchanged books. He gave me The Razor's Edge and I gave him Siddhartha and I wish him well in all things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vasilisa View Post
    This so much. Same experience I had. I enjoyed being around him, so smart and funny. But when it was just he and I away from his usual audience and we found out we shared a temperament, I felt like he wanted to get down to bonding on that level pretty quick and it was a little disconcerting for me. He was (and is) great but I felt a little like he was always performing for his audiences. He just naturally captivated people, thats all. We exchanged books. He gave me The Razor's Edge and I gave him Siddhartha and I wish him well in all things.
    i'm sorry to hear that this male enfp didn't really make you feel as special as you are . . .
    i'm guessing that these enfp males were under the age of 30 . . . but let me tell you an enfp that is 30+ slows down a lot & should / would appreciate the heck out of an infj. now that i'm 30+ (i'm a female enfp) i realize when younger i was mostly into SPs . . . and i probably blew off some INFPs / INFJs along my journeys because of my fast paced / stimulation seeking mentality . . . but now that i'm older, more grounded & really know who i am and what i want . . . i really cannot contemplate a better life partner than an INFJ. You guys are magic to me. pure magic.

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    can someone write a guide on how to hit on an INFJ please?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tofu562 View Post
    can someone write a guide on how to hit on an INFJ please?
    well, with a name like Tofu, i don't think you'd have to try too hard hehe

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