There's a thread happening right now about ENFJs and Manipulation and then to go and do the same thing and no one notices is curious to me. Or maybe they do notice and don't care, which makes all the mewling about Fe and how horrible it is moot to me. Because in reality, people love Fe. They eat it up. That's why I'm positive all this manipulative Fe complaining isn't coming from Fe-doms because proper working Fe is virtually undetectable.
But when it is coming from ExFJs is it somehow more vicious and insidious?