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    Default need advice: ENFP girl and ISFP male friend

    Dear ENFP sisters:

    nice to meet you all.
    I hope U can share your experience with me about ISFP boys. I need girls' perspective on this matter.
    ISFP is very private, quiet and I wish to know more about him. hope he open up more to me.
    The problem is we are only online friends. we will not meet face to face or using the phone.
    Any supportive gesture can only be in written format.

    As an EN I found it hard to talk to IS especially when ...there is NO reply.
    Do U have similiar experience?

    How can EN help IS friend when he is sad?
    Any advice is welcome and greatly appreciated. thanks

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    1. Yes, talking to an introvert is always hard, and can be especially difficult across the S/N divide.
    2. An EN can help anyone that will listen and tell about their problems. ENFP's are incredibly kind and thoughtful, and I've never known one that was mean.

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    i tried to date an ISFP for about two years. After the first year he would actually smile at me and look at my legs as we passed in the hallway. I then gave up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ne-Monster View Post
    i tried to date an ISFP for about two years. After the first year he would actually smile at me and look at my legs as we passed in the hallway. I then gave up.
    ISTPs are much better suited for ENFPs

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    They don't open up a lot. I'm in a similar boat, reverse the genders. I'm somewhat interested in an ISFP girl, but there's not really a lot of depth there. I think as ENFP's we see they aren't opening up and hope something great is buried deep down inside that we can uncover. But there's not. They are physical, sensual, open to fun and nature. They do open up eventually apparently. But I don't think there will ever be depth.

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