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    Revelation Lauren Ashley's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaku View Post
    at the end of it all, I really do enjoy ice cream cake.


    ...And you guys thought I was joking. I tell ya, I know INFJs like the back of my hand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Undeadtom View Post
    Thank you for this.

    Just one thing, it's not that I'm hungry, it's that I'm not.

    Sincerity seems to be the key, and unfortunately I suck at showing it so I'd better work my ass off to muster some of that stuff up to the surface.

    This is the first time I've really messed up in the 7-8 months we've been together. Yes, I should be shot for what I've done to this girl.

    She seems to want me to understand the situation, so I'm working on it.
    Sorry to be brutally honest with you. And you are hungry - for forgiveness and I can feel that.

    I'll send you a for support - honor her feelings, they are powerful and real and since you say you care for her, be there for her, don't let her down like that. I know it may not seem huge to you but part of her choice to be with you is going to be based on how you value her feelings.

    Just be real and really love her. And be honest.

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    I read this earlier and decided to wait a little while before posting so I wouldn't go off half-cocked. I came back to post, only to find that PeaceBaby has pretty much said everything I wanted to say.

    I, too, enjoy ice cream cake.
    The one who buggers a fire burns his penis
    -anonymous graffiti in the basilica at Pompeii

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    This thread is now about ice cream cake, isn't it?

    Also peace, you're right, I did not consider my hunger in that sense.

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    I think the make-out session actually hurt you, as you just showed how easy it is for you to physically connect despite the huge emotional riff. If she assumed the physical and emotional were intertwined with you (like it probably is for her), she just received a wake-up call.

    I'm pretty sure her idealism of you has been knocked flat on its face, and she hasn't figured out how to react. Every action you make will now be carefully scrutinized, as she not only questions your motives, but is questioning what role you might play in her life. She's asking herself how well you can fit into the ideals of what she envisioned her future to be, and that's what will kill you. Once she starts questioning what role you will have in her future, all bets are off.

    A gesture of flowers will not provide the answers she is seeking right now.

    Of course, I'm reading alot into this. If I'm way off track, hopefully an INFJ will knock me down.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    How sure are you that she is INFJ? Has she taken the MBTI; has it been confirmed in any way?
    Heh. Even though this isn't how you might act, I've known INFJs that would act exactly like she did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Heh. Even though this isn't how you might act, I've known INFJs that would act exactly like she did.
    ...it's all just so seemingly "mysterious." The emails did nothing to clear that up. I don't usually find my own type to be this confounding and hard to relate to.

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    We're getting the INFJ's story through an ENTP's lens, though. I'll bet if she were here to explain it herself it would be easier to understand.
    The one who buggers a fire burns his penis
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    ^No doubt, Ivy. There are clearly some missing pieces here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    ^No doubt, Ivy. There are clearly some missing pieces here.
    There are, various parts that I was too lazy to type.

    Amelie, I think what you said has helped most. I don't believe I was acknowledging the hurt, let alone taking responsibility for my actions. I'll keep you updated, I hope I don't make things any messier.

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