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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Can you expound on this?
    well...

    in nice words or not so nice words?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Modern Nomad View Post
    well...

    in nice words or not so nice words?
    Whichever you prefer, I'm not choosy

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    haha

    1) hit it and quit it
    - Hot, nice body, easy come easy go personality, fun, or depending how easy it is, you can lower your "standards" accordingly... but for me i'd always at least have to enjoy SOMEWHAT being around this person. I don't lie to this type about what I expect though... although if I am confused, I am definitely confused.

    2) girlfriend
    - at least decent education, not slept around enough so i envision other guy's sperm on my penis, + requirements for #1
    - requirements for #1 can be replaced to some degree with requirements for #3

    3) wifey
    - good motherly, patient type. funny, someone I can look up to in regards to her decisions in life, clean, classy look, knows how to be spontaneous yet also know how to plan things, no baggage, very lovable type of personality, i mean, this list can go on, but I think its pretty stereotypical guy type stuff. =)


    additional: good friend to her girlfriends/family, talented in at least one thing where she is THE BEST (can be video games lol, fashion, math, drawing, watever... as long as she is GOOD and very talented at it), has a "wise" point of view when it comes to group situations etc...

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    Turn-ons:
    1. A bright mind that is open to new ideas
    2. A kind spirit
    3. Unexpected Shyness (Both extroverts and introverts can have this depending on the situation)
    4. The ability to engage me on a subject without judgment (especially when I am on an Ne frenzy)
    5. A weird and endearing sense of humor -- could be totally inappropriate but not hurtful
    6. Someone who is comfortable in their own skin - this is reflected in the way people dress, carry themselves, talk with a quiet confidence. Even better when the person is able to show vulnerability.
    7. Must bring passion to the table (for ideas, desires, work) whatever fuels the passion but there should be some.
    8. An adventurous spirit , spontaneity, wanderlust.
    9. Someone who understands the importance of finding both an intellectual and emotional connection.
    10. Someone who matches my intensity with their own in new and amazing ways.

    Turn-offs
    1. Bad conversationalists: bad listeners, people who don't ask reciprocal questions.
    2. Close-mindedness
    3. Arrogance that is not backed by skill/knowledge.
    4. I'm with seeker on the clingy-ness.
    5. Yet, there is also such a thing as terrible/too little communication = bad emotional connection
    6. Forever critical/judgmental of my way of life

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    Turn Ons:

    1) Intellectual curiosity
    2) Ability to engage in wit and banter/"hold their own"
    3) A good attitude (negativity/pessimism = icky b/c we see possibility everywhere)
    4) Quirky, dry, silly, or offbeat sense of humor w/innuendo and nuance
    5) Sensuality
    6) Someone who can hold up their end of the conversation w/out hogging or being mute - someone who finds the balance
    7) Someone who allows me autonomy
    8) Someone who engages my mind and curiosity by posing questions
    9) Quiet confidence/comfortable in own skin, carries self with poise or ease
    10) Ability to think outside the box/challenge me/debate with me

    Turn Offs:

    1) Bragging/Know it alls
    2) Unable to uphold their end of a conversation (ex. replying with "yeah, totally" to whatever I say.) I want someone who CONTRIBUTES - even if you disagree with me I will welcome what you have to say and respect it. I despise it when someone agrees with whatever I say all the time.
    3) Extremely critical or negative people (typically we look for best in others)
    4) Clingy-ness (new word)
    5) Whining/complaining rather than solutions focused
    6) Liars/Poor character
    7) Judgemental or won't 'live and let live' as long as no one is being harmed
    8) Rigidity or believing there is only "one right way" to do something
    9) Anyone who attempts to exert control over me or rob me of my autonomy
    10) Emotionally immaturity or instability, or engages in emotional blackmail such as pouting, sulking, etc. rather than communicate and work it out and find a win/win.

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    So what I'm getting from this thread is "an ENTP"
    Extremes: Need To Pursue

    I like my cars fast, my music loud, and my women even faster and louder!

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    I'm not too picky, but a few general but highly necessary aspects are completely needed.

    Love. It must be a true love thing, without question.
    Truth. We need to be completely true to eachother, but that's obvious.
    Real. It needs to be 100% real, with no strings attached.
    And Action. Love is action and not just something you say. Action even physical outcome are necessary to me in a relationship, and not just saying, but doing.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    There needs to be more ENFPs where I live then. I don't relate well to the ones that jump me
    'Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and its better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.' - Marilyn Monroe

    This is who I am, escapist, paradise-seeker.
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    Anthropology Major out of Hamline University. St. Paul, Minnesota.

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    I look for a girl who is attractive, puts out after a few days/dates, and is easy to get to but not too hard to ignore.

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    I look for connection.

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