It might have been the I Ching but I think it was the Book of Leadership and Strategy, or maybe both, but anyways there is this section about leaders
"The worst [least effective] leaders are those who punish and torment. Better leaders are those who lead and praise. Better yet are those who lead from afar and are revered. The best, however, are those who are not known and only whispered about..."
"Dude, apparently I'm like the head leader of China now or something. No, no I'm more remote than that, therefore I am clearly the leader of the WHOLE UNIVERSE"
OA: I've done plenty of yoga as well, and I;'m sure plenty of INFP's have as well. When I said "gym" I was thinking more along the lines of lifting weights, treadmills, etc..
I don't know about other INFPs, but personally there are lots of things that I would like to do but don't want to do alone, meaning if someone invited me to go with them I'd love to. Don't get me wrong, i do plenty of things alone, but at least for me I liek it when people invite me along on stuff.