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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    yes....but not every ENFJ is a Jesus CEO ENFJ, or that crazy soap opera cliche!

    some are a lot more subdued and lower energy. I can definitely be a flirt. I can also be very silly. However, a lot of the time, I just "blend in" and you would never peg me as that "jesus CEO" or "soap opera cliche" ENFJ. We aren't all enneagram 3w2 and 2w3!!!

    I would describe the ENFJ absent of enneagram stuff as:
    --the task driven NF
    --the choleric NF
    --the phlegmatic ENTJ
    --the loyalty judge + silver lining perciever

    Besides all of that, I think the "flirt", "attachment" and "outward image control" are enneagram things...maybe you just need a different enneagram ENFJ?
    Most of the ENFJs I refer to are not the "Jesus CEO" types , although I have known one who fits that.

    I'm pretty sure the 2 ENFJs I am closest to and refer to the most are 3w4s; one may even be 4w3. They both have a dreamer/moody side. Both say they are shy even though they talk to people everywhere they go.

    INFPs are still comparatively much less flirty/friendly/lower energy, so from my perspective it can be hard to tell where I stand with these ENFJs. I think I know, but then I see them treat someone else similarly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    I find I clash with most F-doms - the e and the i don't seem to matter... ^_^;;
    well, actually you may be onto something. To be honest, I don't like being F-dom most of the time.

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    I like F-doms. They get too much of a bad rap here. On a related note, I plan on making a thread sometime soon about how I think emotional & feeling men are awesome.
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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    That may be part of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    I like F-doms. They get too much of a bad rap here. On a related note, I plan on making a thread sometime soon about how I think emotional & feeling men are awesome.
    Please do. Emotion is incredibly alluring if channeled intelligently.
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    I like F-doms. They get too much of a bad rap here. On a related note, I plan on making a thread sometime soon about how I think emotional & feeling men are awesome.
    Ooh ooh ooh, yes this would be good to hear more about

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    Ironically I get along better w/ F-dom males than females.

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    Have you come to a conclusion why?
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    It might have something to do with gender roles and such. Male F-doms and I don't feed into emotional drama quite as much while with other F-dom females that emotionality seems to intensify. The male F-doms appear more chill while female F-doms tend to be more expressive and uptight (myself included). This is how it's been w/ me anyways. Have you noticed a difference between the vibes between male F-doms vs. female F-doms?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    Please do. Emotion is incredibly alluring if channeled intelligently.
    Quote Originally Posted by Scott N Denver View Post
    Ooh ooh ooh, yes this would be good to hear more about
    Done. It's in the relationship section. Now go support it!
    Often a star was waiting for you to notice it. A wave rolled toward you out of the distant past, or as you walked under an open window, a violin yielded itself to your hearing. All this was mission. But could you accomplish it? (Rilke)

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