I don't have a Fe clash with most ENFJs. I find Fe hardest with SFJs.
There's more of an "expected way" with SFJs.
The main issue brought up over & over again are something like:
- Does the ENFJ like me, or are they just being nice to me like they are with everyone? Will they continue to flirt like mad with everything that moves if we were to date?
- Why won't the ENFJ open up to me? Or, they started to open up, but then they pull away; why?
- The ENFJ is stuck on an ex (or several); will they ever get over it?