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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Could I get one that won't try to be mommy to me?
    There should be a test to determine how mothering one is. I don't feel like i'm one of those... or at least not when it is uncalled for.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkindloving View Post
    There should be a test to determine how mothering one is. I don't feel like i'm one of those... or at least not when it is uncalled for.
    Grandma and great-aunt will at least not get their panties in a not when I'm in mission or support mode, so it's not that bad. The problem is in the case of my ex where she would take it as me being cold - though I wondered what she expected after messing around with the status of our relationship so much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkindloving View Post
    There should be a test to determine how mothering one is. I don't feel like i'm one of those... or at least not when it is uncalled for.
    HelloQuizzy.com: The How motherly are you Test
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    looking for one more?
    Always. I am a masochist after all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Grandma and great-aunt will at least not get their panties in a not when I'm in mission or support mode, so it's not that bad. The problem is in the case of my ex where she would take it as me being cold - though I wondered what she expected after messing around with the status of our relationship so much.
    Ah. Having a certain type in the family has its own perks and downfalls, so that is understandable.
    Hmm. Cuddly control issues?

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    So... why the lack of ENFJ-INFP relationships?
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    I think the pair would be too intense... I wouldn't want a battle of hurt feelings every couple of weeks from either side, for me personally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheEmeraldCanopy View Post
    So... why the lack of ENFJ-INFP relationships?
    INFP Fi... doesnt want to submit to the ENFJ Fe.
    So it would be a great match if the INFP happened to have Fi values that fit the Fe of the ENFJ. Otherwise it would be a "showdown" as bad as Te vs Fi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkindloving View Post
    Ah. Having a certain type in the family has its own perks and downfalls, so that is understandable.
    Hmm. Cuddly control issues?
    Eh, the ex decided to downgrade our relationship from SO to friend status because her family was pulling her away. After that I acted like friends since I didn't want to do anything inappropriate. After she was gone a mutual friend told me she thought I was cold. I figure it was a case of her saying one thing and wanting another and hoping I'll figure it out or that she can use it to cease having feelings for me.

    Edit: this also brings up the point that I need some one who will tell me what I need to know, not what she thinks I want to hear.


    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    I think the pair would be too intense... I wouldn't want a battle of hurt feelings every couple of weeks from either side, for me personally.
    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    INFP Fi... doesnt want to submit to the ENFJ Fe.
    So it would be a great match if the INFP happened to have Fi values that fit the Fe of the ENFJ. Otherwise it would be a "showdown" as bad as Te vs Fi.
    Matching values is something any NF needs especially when it's two NFs together. ENFP and INFJ are a little easier since they're percieving dominant, but even they can get a little bent when there's enough of a discrepancy. Then again, ENFJ's harmonizing Fe can soften things someone between two people the same time which may make that situation a little less explosive than two INFPs together (cold war + mutually assured distruction multiple times, anyone?)...

    I'd definately need someone with close enough values to mine for it to work right.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    INFP Fi... doesnt want to submit to the ENFJ Fe.
    So it would be a great match if the INFP happened to have Fi values that fit the Fe of the ENFJ. Otherwise it would be a "showdown" as bad as Te vs Fi.
    Agreed! I have a complicated relationship with Fe-doms, because I end up dating them, pursuing them, but eventually hating them so much. I always find them a bit too controlling, but the problem is the control is generally benevolent so I would seem unreasonable when I get testy. But I mean no one likes to be controlled all the time, even if it's a "looking out for you" control. It's hard to fight with them, because they're generally agreeable, so you end up holding it in until you just blindside them with all the pent up resentment a year later. Well, you do if you have assertiveness issues like me

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