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    haha, maybe "unnerving" is a better word?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    What's the appeal of INTJs? I've dated a few and I wasn't impressed.....
    I know a few INTJs. A couple are rather cold, boring, uptight whatever...the others are unreal. Just so incredibly romantic and wonderful and *sighs*. I can see your confusion and I guess it does come down to the person and surrounding circumstances, but if you manage to find a fairly warm INTJ and open them up with your Fi it can be quite beautiful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    haha, maybe "unnerving" is a better word?
    Probably more accurate, but creepy is good too
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    I'm 23. The ENFJ referred to in this thread is 27 this year. Not sure where y'all got the teenage years from! I'm not going to look for an excuse for his 'come hither now watch me disappear!' act though. A dick move is a dick move.
    My mistake, I for some reason thought he was a teenager. I might have had you confused w/ someone else. But seriously???? 27??? That's insane. Sounded like high school games to me.

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    Yup. Should definitely have known better than to act the way he did. I'm over it though. At least he's not as cutting as the Chinese throwing stars the ENTP ex is currently tossing my way.
    With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    Random thought: when I around INFPs, I feel REALLY vulnerable around them and I think the same goes for them. It's like we are extra in tune w/ each other. This kind of creeps me out. The only other type that can read me better is an ENFJ...that's even more creepy.
    That's what I LOVE about ENFJs. I don't feel vulnerable in a bad way though. It's a good kind of openness I rarely feel with people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fuzzcrossed View Post

    ENFJs have many layers, if people wanna look. We just don't talk about how we feel very often. Sometimes, it's hard for INFPs to realize that we are people too, and our emotions are just as complex.

    How do you get under all of those ENFJ layers? *takes notes*
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    Oh, it's not hard. Be sweet, open to correction, and at least occasionally show him that you are willing to sacrifice for him...that will speak volumes.

    The correction part sounds more ominous than it is...what I mean by that is we often like to give advice (speaks to an xNFP blind spot I've noticed)...at least be open to hearing what we've got to say.
    Love is the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheEmeraldCanopy View Post
    How do you get under all of those ENFJ layers? *takes notes*
    There's a thread for that specifically. You get under those layers, homeskillet!
    Hopefully that is helpful
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkindloving View Post
    There's a thread for that specifically. You get under those layers, homeskillet!
    Hopefully that is helpful
    My first quoted thread.

    EDIT: P.S. A lot of that advice really worked. Me and my ENFJ best friend had a really major conversation for about three hours over coffee last night. It was really awesome and we worked through a lot of stuff about both us - mainly little things that we do that annoys the other, which can be hard/awkward to talk about. But lately our friendship has gone to a whole new level. I think both time passing and many things in that thread helped us get to that point. Pretty much Id take a bullet for him, and he the same.

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