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    I don't understand this thread at all. I must have alien Fe or something.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Scott N Denver View Post
    Hmm, is that a canadian phrase or something? I don't know what it means that could meaningfully apply to this thread.

    But yes, do go on with our INFP good points! I think we INFP's need to be reminded more frequently of our good points than the ENFJ's do of theirs since it is my experience that they get positively complemented about things far more often than we do.

    My calling this thread a circle jerk was a play on it's usual meaning
    . Basically we're just sitting around talking about our types in a very flattering manner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thursday View Post
    -intensity
    -you're decided and a planner
    -the goading
    -the invulnerability is cute, since we can see right through you
    -we patiently wait for you to run your errands with people so you can finally unfurl and have someone(us) take care of you for once
    -you are in-charge while we run you(not controlling, ya know?)
    -the epicurean attitude - always fun for me at least

    haha yes. All of these!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thessaly View Post
    My calling this thread a circle jerk was a play on it's usual meaning
    . Basically we're just sitting around talking about our types in a very flattering manner.
    I was afraid that that is what you meant! You know, I never thought I'd hear an NF describe people complementing other people in that way Especially from a fellow INFP. Do ENFJ's, and their Ni?, rub off on us the wrong way? I'm gonna go run away and cry now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jimboworld View Post
    I'd like to hear you worship L Ron Hubbard, Jim Jones, and Adolf Hitler.
    Wait, she isn't supposed to like her ENFJ because of Adolf Hitler? Hell, if she does that the terrorists will have won. :rolli:

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    ENFJs =
    ENFJs + INFPs =
    "So I say, live and let live. Thatís my motto. Live and let live.
    Anyone who canít go along with that, take him outside and shoot the motherfucker."
    - George Carlin

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    INFP cultivates the crazy inside the ENFJ
    ENFJ protects the poet and allows them an easy transition and anchor to more practical and less psychic endeavors ?
    I N V I C T U S

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    I am an ISFP though I've also tested INFP. I've been married to an ENFJ for 23 years. He smothered me in the beginning. Told me within a month he was falling for me and then a few months later proposed!!! Not sure why me .. maybe it was my kindness, shyness, also I loved animals and lived in the country. He was from the city so I think he just fell in love with the concept of me as well.

    Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rainoneventide View Post
    ENFJs =
    ENFJs + INFPs =
    YouTube - Lesley Gore - Sunshine, Lollipops And Rainbows (with Lyrics)

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    So whats the news between you and your ENFJ boy toy?

    I love how this thread is thriving off enfjs and infps. I guess NT's dont really know what love is lol jk. The INTPs and ENTPs do.

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