[Fe] Poll: Overthinking

[stigmatica]

you don't remember because I was dressed like this, and not like in my avatar;my everyday life work clothes.
as a matter fact i think you're still hiding under that ball dress

Oh! So there are three of you then? It all makes sense now!

 

[MattC333]

Can you two please conduct your weird foreplay elsewhere please? Haha, cute to watch though

I tend to overthink what they might think of me, but if I get a hint of things going well and it being a good possibility for a decent relationship, I take charge and go for it.
I'm all over it like a tramps on chips! That's fries to those over the pond

 

[Chloe]

Can you two please conduct your weird foreplay elsewhere please? Haha, cute to watch though

It's actually a role-play, you are invited to join. Just pic cartoon or fairytale and dress appropriate

 

[OrangeAppled]

I voted "not sure". I suppose I have actively pursued a relationship in the sense that I've done the online dating thing. I put myself "out there".
However, I'd just sit back and let people message me and initiate any plans to meet. After that, if I like the guy, I over-fantasize without taking much action.

I'm not the kind to chase a person down at all, and ultimately I have to be pursued. And it seems the other person & me always have opposite ideas as to whether things should develop further... I like him, but he's not into me and vice verse. If I don't like a guy, I am upfront, but I have trouble being so upfront if I do like him.

Most of the dating I have done has been "traditional", meaning it started off romantically & intentions were clear that we were on a date. I've never dated someone where I started off as friends or whatever; I've never "fallen into" dating someone.

I have also definitely never woken up one day and realized I was in a relationship.
"Last night I dreamt that somebody loved me; no hope, no how, just another false alarm"