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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    And yet it's true for the majority of undeveloped INFJs.
    Key word there being "underdeveloped."

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    Guilty? Why would you assume guilt?

    Lots of people have cried during sex for one reason or another, mainly due to emotional intensity. It isn't usually a bad thing.

    However, I guess a person could start crying because they don't want the other person to touch them, but I really don't think that would be the case here, especially since she said what she did afterward.

    I wouldn't worry about it. Certain people are just more expressive than others.

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    A more interesting question. Have any INFJs laughed loudly during sex?

    It certainly goes against type, but with the right joke or amusing story, coupled with a straight face, it can be done...

    So I'm told.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Digital Ghost View Post
    Doesn't the OP violate rule 7 in the TypologyCentral FAQ?!
    Is she a member of the forum, and did she send her comment via forum PM?
    (As much as I wish we could fix the whole world, alas -- we can only monitor stuff here. )

    Quote Originally Posted by bananatrombones View Post
    A more interesting question. Have any INFJs laughed loudly during sex?
    As long as they don't fall asleep during it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    I thought the thread title read "INTJ" AHAHA
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    I'd like to see that.

    Now now, I've cried one time during sex. Yes I did.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bananatrombones View Post
    A more interesting question. Have any INFJs laughed loudly during sex?

    It certainly goes against type, but with the right joke or amusing story, coupled with a straight face, it can be done...
    Yes; sex is fun - it happens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toonia View Post
    I wonder for how many INFJs that applies. I don't think I qualify as moody, but feel things deeply and consistently. I can accept and understand a wide range of people, and I do not require others to walk on eggshells because I have ability to view communication from different perspectives. I look at the core of the communication and not the packaging. I work from the other person's perspective not mine so you can ignore me or become needy and more often than not, I'm the one who can adapt to it. The label of moodiness concerns me because I don't want others to think they have to handle me with kid gloves. Those who know me can attest to this.

    My impression is that INFJs can have emotional tenacity, depth of feeling, and are not particularly fragile. This is why the comments about crying during sex imply depth of feeling and not something fragile or breakable.
    I think 'moody' covers quite a bit of ground and doesn't simply relate to being some kind of PMS-y emotional roller-coaster. I'm extremely moody. Some days I'll be cheerful, other days I'll be brooding about something. People ask me about what's wrong and they'll get a succinct answer.

    I agree with you about the depth of feeling bit. It's precisely because of our depth of feeling that it's hard for some of us to open up to it and feel the full brunt of it because it involves other people and not just ourselves, increasing the level of vulnerability. I wouldn't say that 'fragile' is the best word for that though. Stubborn, on the other hand fits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    Stubborn, on the other hand fits.
    Now that one, I also have to own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amelie View Post
    Now that one, I also have to own.
    That's my middle name. True story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bananatrombones View Post
    A more interesting question. Have any INFJs laughed loudly during sex?

    It certainly goes against type, but with the right joke or amusing story, coupled with a straight face, it can be done...

    So I'm told.
    Of course...and frequently. I don't see how that goes against type (but maybe that's just me.)

    Just a few weeks ago I laughed (until I cried, interestingly enough) when we inadvertently rolled off the bed onto the floor. I looked at him. He looked at me...and we both lost it. It still cracks me up thinking of it.

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