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    Quote Originally Posted by Viv View Post
    This is a really good question.. Because to me, it's the intent behind every action that speaks volumes about how people care for one another.. "I Love You" is just sugar-coat, icing on the cake, for me. I've always been like that even as a kid- because words are just words. Talk is talk.

    A true test for love is when people stick together through thick and thin, and in the end, look at one another with regard, respect.. in a way that they know they cherish one another through unspoken words.

    I've been in relationships where guys will constantly say, "I Love You. I Love You. Babe. I Love You." It just made me want to vomit, because to me? It felt like they were trying to sugarcoat a relationship that wasn't as strong. It just sounds like sweet-talk to cover up for something that's a bit shallow.

    I rarely express my I Love Yous through words, but instead, through my actions/intent. I think if I were to try to communicate with a blind/death person, in the end, it's still about *how* I care for them that truly withstands the test of time, especially, when they're at their lowest low.
    I think I couldn't agree more! I've known so many couples who were only touching each other all day long and telling each other how much they loved each other, but a month later they already broke up!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Viv View Post
    This is a really good question.. Because to me, it's the intent behind every action that speaks volumes about how people care for one another.. "I Love You" is just sugar-coat, icing on the cake, for me. I've always been like that even as a kid- because words are just words. Talk is talk.

    A true test for love is when people stick together through thick and thin, and in the end, look at one another with regard, respect.. in a way that they know they cherish one another through unspoken words.

    I've been in relationships where guys will constantly say, "I Love You. I Love You. Babe. I Love You." It just made me want to vomit, because to me? It felt like they were trying to sugarcoat a relationship that wasn't as strong. It just sounds like sweet-talk to cover up for something that's a bit shallow.

    I rarely express my I Love Yous through words, but instead, through my actions/intent. I think if I were to try to communicate with a blind/death person, in the end, it's still about *how* I care for them that truly withstands the test of time, especially, when they're at their lowest low.
    Can't I be for both? I'm a firm believer of actions...but also words!
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