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    Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

    It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Army View Post
    Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

    It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.
    Wait that actually works.

    But I love my retarded self involved asshole, the other day he jumped off of a pick up and landed on the floor all bruised and sore.

    The gnome didn't look much better either, all that polish ruined the suit and the rain just soaked the jacket.

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    You know how its said that women respond to romance. where the man has to dress, do stuff that is totally unnatural, take the time to set up situations that resemble he cares enough to do something romantic. how insane is that, that is inauthentic when after the romance the guy goes back to his true colours, then the expectation wanes and the women wonders why the romance is dead. i hear being authentic is the key to winning a womans heart yet when a woman wants to be romanced, how then is that authentic, its false.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synapse View Post
    You know how its said that women respond to romance. where the man has to dress, do stuff that is totally unnatural, take the time to set up situations that resemble he cares enough to do something romantic. how insane is that, that is inauthentic when the nature of the beast is such that after the farce of romance the guy goes back to his true colours, then the expectation wanes and the women wonders why the romance is dead. i hear being authentic is the key to winning a womans heart yet when a woman wants to be romanced, how then is that authentic, its false.
    What is totally unnatural that he has to do?

    Dress himself up how?

    And why would this be false for everyone?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    What is totally unnatural that he has to do?

    Dress himself up how?

    And why would this be false for everyone?
    I think Synapse might be talking about chivalry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Army View Post
    Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

    It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.
    Again I ask--does this really do anything on its own?

    I've met very, VERY few women who are willing to be honest about what they want in a mate. Most would rather just say what they think they should want, which makes it pretty confusing.

    Obviously "don't be an asshole" is a prerequisite, but I doubt very seriously that that's the only thing required.
    If you could be anything you want, I bet you'd be disappointed--am I right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    I think Synapse might be talking about chivalry.
    But what's unnatural about chivalry?

    Isn't it very natural for some people to be that way anyway?
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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    Again I ask--does this really do anything on its own?

    I've met very, VERY few women who are willing to be honest about what they want in a mate. Most would rather just say what they think they should want, which makes it pretty confusing.

    Obviously "don't be an asshole" is a prerequisite, but I doubt very seriously that that's the only thing required.
    I know what you mean, I find it much much easier to list the things I don't want, than the things I do.

    Perhaps because I have more experience in what hasn't worked, than what has?

    I have a sort of rough idea, ie he needs to be nice.......lol how broad and undefined is that?
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    Yes the chivalry, I think what I mean is that once you get past the romance stage women get disappointed when the romance isn't happening like it used to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synapse View Post
    Yes the chivalry, I think what I mean is that once you get past the romance stage women get disappointed when the romance isn't happening like it used to.

    Only if it's forced in the first place, I'm guessing certain types would find "romance" more natural and long lasting than others.

    I'm hoping anyway.
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