Is it persistence in pursuing? Basically just showing her that you'll care for her FOREVER, and won't stop. unless she's married of course.I read everywhere that persistence is key to success to a lot of things. Any mature women who would like to comment on this subject matter, that would be awesome. Give me your insight!!!
You mean does being a stubborn ENJF work with a woman who doesn't want to open up, is emotionally detached and afraid to trust? Yes I'm pretty sure it does.
I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
Only if she kind of likes you to begin with, or she's a certain type of person. If I really have no interest in a guy and he keeps showing up at my door uninvited I'm probably going to yell at him, not become more interested.
"Sentiment without action is the ruin of the soul." - Edward Abbey
TAKE MY ADVICE: I've dealt with this before. If you want to be with her you must follow this exactly:
1.) Do NOT try to contact her way too much.
2.) Limit yourself to 1 text a week. unless she initiates.
3.) 1 call every month. unless she initiates.
4.) 3 posts/messages/pic comments/wall comments etc a month to her social messaging site (facebook myspace twitter etc).
5.) Be her FRIEND. Because when this guy she is with leaves, then you are her friend. The best attribute of being a friend to a girl that you like is you can get a LOT of face time with her and that way you can slowly move in on her.
6.) Timing is everything, how it starts is how it ends, you rushing in quickly and swiftly, it will end the same way. Slow and cautiously, same ending. Unless of course you marry her, BUT RUSHING IN WILL GET YOU NO WHERE. be PATIENT.
7.) Live your life, have fun, don't think about her too much.
8.) More friendship=more love=more chance of romance.
Trust me. Just trust me.
haha and its from a confidence and goal setting course of all places, last place I expected to meet anyone I'd click with. It wasn't like I even wanted to talk with her but I'm glad I did.
Persistence in pursuit tends to have a negative connotation in my experience. It can feel like intrusion, disrespect, and entitlement. It has never worked. This is especially true if I have created a boundary to stop or minimize the pursuit that is ignored. The following are important.
Willingness to listen and respond in a meaningful way.
Ability to see and appreciate what I have to offer that is different than a million other people.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY