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    ^ best way to turn me off sytpg.

    There's no "method" for winning affection. You just have to play by ear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jonathanthegreat View Post
    Is it persistence in pursuing? Basically just showing her that you'll care for her FOREVER, and won't stop. unless she's married of course.I read everywhere that persistence is key to success to a lot of things. Any mature women who would like to comment on this subject matter, that would be awesome. Give me your insight!!!
    You mean does being a stubborn ENJF work with a woman who doesn't want to open up, is emotionally detached and afraid to trust? Yes I'm pretty sure it does.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Only if she kind of likes you to begin with, or she's a certain type of person. If I really have no interest in a guy and he keeps showing up at my door uninvited I'm probably going to yell at him, not become more interested.

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    Take a fabulous trip to Vegas. Treat her to dinner. Then rip out her heart, and bet it on Red 13.

    You could lose her heart too, but look on the bright side. This gives you 2:1 odds.
    ESTP - Definition: "Love" is making a shot to the knees of a target a 120 km away, with an aratech sniper rifle and tri-light scope.
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    I'm afraid I can't help you; I'm still trying to figure out how exactly I won my girl's heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peguy View Post
    I'm afraid I can't help you; I'm still trying to figure out how exactly I won my girl's heart.
    Your an INFJ male.....girls cannot help but hand over those hearts to you guys!
    (even other infjs....)
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    St. Stephen took rocks and St. Sebastian took arrows. You only have to take some jerks on an internet forum. Nut up.

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    Don't see it as winning her heart and be prepared to lose your own in the process.

    Woo, gently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainbows View Post
    Your an INFJ male.....girls cannot help but hand over those hearts to you guys!
    (even other infjs....)
    I guess that also explains why they're so afraid of "hurting" me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jonathanthegreat View Post
    TAKE MY ADVICE: I've dealt with this before. If you want to be with her you must follow this exactly:

    1.) Do NOT try to contact her way too much.
    2.) Limit yourself to 1 text a week. unless she initiates.
    3.) 1 call every month. unless she initiates.
    4.) 3 posts/messages/pic comments/wall comments etc a month to her social messaging site (facebook myspace twitter etc).
    5.) Be her FRIEND. Because when this guy she is with leaves, then you are her friend. The best attribute of being a friend to a girl that you like is you can get a LOT of face time with her and that way you can slowly move in on her.
    6.) Timing is everything, how it starts is how it ends, you rushing in quickly and swiftly, it will end the same way. Slow and cautiously, same ending. Unless of course you marry her, BUT RUSHING IN WILL GET YOU NO WHERE. be PATIENT.
    7.) Live your life, have fun, don't think about her too much.
    8.) More friendship=more love=more chance of romance.

    Trust me. Just trust me.
    Interesting, thanks.

    haha and its from a confidence and goal setting course of all places, last place I expected to meet anyone I'd click with. It wasn't like I even wanted to talk with her but I'm glad I did.

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    Persistence in pursuit tends to have a negative connotation in my experience. It can feel like intrusion, disrespect, and entitlement. It has never worked. This is especially true if I have created a boundary to stop or minimize the pursuit that is ignored. The following are important.

    Honesty
    Willingness to listen and respond in a meaningful way.
    Ability to see and appreciate what I have to offer that is different than a million other people.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
    (from Blue Velvet)

    I want to be just like my mother, even if she is bat-shit crazy.

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