Don't worry. Your magnificent pelt, though laid upon and dusty and crushed, will never be stored in the basement rolled up in a rug under a drippy pipe. I'm a woman of honor. I'll staple it to a tapestry rod and beat it every day to keep the pile erect and fluffy.
Yeah. Right. Just come visit already. I dont take vacations. Vacations are for weaklings!
Expression of the post modern paradox : "For the love of god, religions are so full of shit"
Theory is always superseded by Fact...
... In theory.
“I’d hate to die twice. It’s so boring.” Richard Feynman's last recorded words
"Great is the human who has not lost his childlike heart." Mencius (Meng-Tse), 4th century BCE
ENFJs feel guilty a lot.
If they do smth bad once you are wondering why they don't feel guilty about that then. Cuz in them moments they get defensive. Which is very confusing.
I think understanding is a key with ENFJs. They respond best on supportive approach.
Thrills happen for awesome reasons, shit happens for shitty reason. So don't pay attention on stuff which happen for shitty reasons, but on ones which happen for awesome reasons. I'm an awesome reason.
both, and among the few who can make me feel introverted in comparison, aspecially in high-Fe situations, where i can find myself completely out of my element.
just to give you a relatively recent example, a couple of months ago me and an ENFJ where competing for the same spot in a place of a newly renovated high-quality student housing. finding me waiting for the landlord by the entrance, she quickly became my best friend while we waited, to a point where the fact we are competing for the same spot rather then moving to house together became a neglactible misfortunte to ignore in my mind. then the landlord came, and in minutes she - the ENFJ - became best friends with the older lady, who pulled out the paper for her to sign before i could check ask about the loundry room's plumming. trying to understand what just happened, i wanted to grab an introvert's shell and crawl into it for a winter slumber. i was out-extroverted, out-Fe'd and out-charmed, even out-sanguined, which is probably not even a word. and yet i have no resentment, rather, it lingers on aw, because frankly, she bloody impressed me.
I work with a couple of possible ENFJs which are a bit different from each other, but are both people I admire a great deal. One is quite forceful in communication style, so the main exhausting part is the necessity of matching this style when one has to say, "no" to something. The other one has a softer style being quite sensitive and has a difficult time saying "no" to anyone else because of a different sort of Fe - one that is focused on harmony between individuals. I am extra careful to always give this person an easy way to say "no" to anything I need to ask of them.
Maybe those two are different types, but they are both mentors extraordinare, inspiring, exuding external warmth, etc.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY