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    Quote Originally Posted by Cimarron View Post
    It's hard to put my finger on it, really. At any present moment, they seem to barely even want other people in their lives, but in the long run they make it obvious that they do want that, very much. This is not only for romantic-level contact, it's something that's encountered right away with an INFJ I know. (May be just a statistical outlier)
    I'd say that's pretty common.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cimarron View Post
    INFJs are definitely fascinating, from what I know in real life. They don't annoy me, but what I've seen is that they're difficult to "reach," and they don't take steps to make it easier to do so, either.

    It's hard to put my finger on it, really. At any present moment, they seem to barely even want other people in their lives, but in the long run they make it obvious that they do want that, very much. This is not only for romantic-level contact, it's something that's encountered right away with an INFJ I know. (May be just a statistical outlier)
    I generally don't work at establishing relationships with people - I let them make it clear to me that they want to be friends before I feel comfortable asking them to do things together, and of course, I have to make sure that I'm going to feel comfortable getting closer to them. I'm easy to get to know casually, but hard to get to really be friends with. But, yes, in my case, I do want that very much. Maybe it's just me, but that's my experience.

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