I tend to look like I'm lost, but that might just be me. My son, who is probably not an INFJ, has the same lost look.
I seem to come off cold or stuck up or just weird because I don't emote much unless something I'm passionate about comes up.
I really don't think the world is against me. They just don't have a freaking clue what box to put me in. Some folks find that troublesome. I find it troublesome, too. Sometimes it would be nice to have a comfy box to fit into.