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    Senior Member Winds of Thor's Avatar
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    Default ENTP Date With INFJ Tomorrow

    So I have a date with an INFJ tomorrow night...

    I am starting to feel ripped inside...I mean, I am thankful to meet an INFJ...and I thought I would just get to know someone my exact type opposite, right?..

    Well, now I feel this pull..and it's magnetic. And she's like 55 and I'm 37.

    But my feelings are engaging.

    I don't want to be rude, but this messing me up.

    She called today...said she was in the library (makes sense you might find an INFJ in a library).. I mean, we met at a bookstore.

    It's just coffee tomorrow.

    This is beginning to pull on me. I mean there's the start of a primal sort of attraction. But I could never get close to her because she's in her 50s.

    So I'm gonna do my best to not get too attached to her.

    I keep looking for an INFJ who is kind, my age or younger, has similar values, is pretty to get married and be happy.
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Tune in tomorrow for Lays of Our Lives


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    Meh, what does age matter if you connect (and are both legal)?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
    Meh, what does age matter if you connect (and are both legal)?
    Are you serious? Is this the startings of an ENTP-ENTP argument..Are you feeling sporty?

    Well, honestly it started as a curiousity into her as she's INFJ and I find that really interesting..potential first ever meeting an INFJ woman ya know?...tho I am not interested in her as a wife.

    But she's so seemingly available...I didn't expect this level of enthusiasm from an INFJ. I live and I learn. Tis the season.

    Thanks for the encouragment Trinity.
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    But I could never get close to her because she's in her 50s!
    wow.

    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    So I'm gonna do my best to not get too attracted to her.
    k.

    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Why can't I just find one my age who is pretty and be done with it. Get married and be happy.
    because you reek of desperation and delusions of instant gratification.

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    i noticed you re-edited this post and selectively excluded the fact that you drove around all day looking for infj's.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velocity View Post
    i noticed you re-edited this post and selectively excluded the fact that you drove around all day looking for infj's.
    Yup. Check. Did I leave that out? Thanks. I didn't realize I excluded it. I'm putting that back in. And no...Casually perused some places...Spent about 45 mins.

    Wow you are dramatic!
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by velocity View Post
    because you reek of desperation and delusions of instant gratification.
    First, I condemn your critical spirit.

    Desperation? No. Just like to start a family. Notice she must be INFJ. Someone desperate wouldn't be so selective.

    Instant gratification? No...oh no. There's many other ways of finding that. Not me. Not now.

    Ahh..nevermind. I'm sticking to my passions in life. Relationships are a nightmare...and I can only do what I know. I'm sticking to engineering.
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Yup. Check. Did I leave that out? Thanks. I didn't realize I excluded it. I'm putting that back in. And no...Casually perused some places...Spent about 45 mins.
    odd, because i could have sworn it was six hours in the original post.
    you've also modified the original post several times now, so it sounds less like self-pitying whining. good job. glad to see i could help raise your self-awareness.

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    First, I condemn your critical spirit
    without criticism there would never be any progress.

    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Desperation? No. Just like to start a family. Notice she must be INFJ. Someone desperate wouldn't be so selective.
    yet you would jump at the opportunity to go on a date with someone you've already placed limitations on based on age?

    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Instant gratification? No...oh no. There's many other ways of finding that. Not me. Not now.
    that's too bad. because you make marriage sound so easy.

    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Ahh..nevermind. I'm sticking to my passions in life. Relationships are a nightmare...and I can only do what I know. I'm sticking to engineering.
    a better idea would be to learn about relationships and work on them.

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    Why are so many ENTP guys fixated on the idea of an INFJ?
    I don't get it.

    Nevermind the fact that you seem to need a woman that's younger.

    It sounds like you need a serious reality check.
    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    sheesh humans! for realz

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