This is very true of most female ENTPs that I've encountered here, and most older male ENTPs--but ENTPs in general are known for maturing slowly.
And testosterone + gender expectations (Fe hasn't yet developed much and so the ENTP can be unaware of its effects, especially given the overemphasis on "rationality" that young NTs often exhibit) can lead to anger/aggression issues in young ENTP males much more commonly than you seem to think. Personally, I tend to indulge in Se as an escape when I'm feeling incompetent because I'm overanalyzing/self-criticizing my behavior or thought patterns too much...it helps me unwind by temporarily letting my mind escape its own thoughts/ease the uncomfortable feeling of incompetence.
They grow out of it, but ask anyone who's had an ENTP son and you'll hear some horror stories about aggressive overcompensation when they see someone as being stupid or unintelligent, and especially if that person has control over them. ENTPs hate being controlled.
Some of us take a long time to balance out emotionally.