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    Quote Originally Posted by Nyota View Post
    House is REAL.... which is what we like to watch. Same with everything else; we enjoy things that can be applicable to our lives.
    [wait... we're not in the actual House thread. how'd this happen?]
    Lauren derailed this shizz.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Watching healthy people live is not interesting. There is no conflict. No struggle with the darker forces.
    What is healthy anyway? To whose standards? I tend to think that everybody is broken. Some are more, some are less. What matters is how they deal with it.


    What comes to heartbreak and dealing with it, I agree with Jennifer that it should be embraced, figured out and then let go.

    Psychological pain is definitely a part of it. You only get your heart broken when you let people close to your heart. It's actually the analyzing part that hurts the most, going over every little detail and figuring out why this happened. However, this is necessary and a part of the letting go process.

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    Give me a break... are you setting a trap? Are you actually heartbroken or just trying to lure in an INFJ woman? You seem to be holding up well. :rolli:

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    Give me a break... are you setting a trap? Are you actually heartbroken or just trying to lure in an INFJ woman? You seem to be holding up well. :rolli:
    Cock blocker.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    What is healthy anyway? To whose standards? I tend to think that everybody is broken. Some are more, some are less. What matters is how they deal with it.


    What comes to heartbreak and dealing with it, I agree with Jennifer that it should be embraced, figured out and then let go.

    Psychological pain is definitely a part of it. You only get your heart broken when you let people close to your heart. It's actually the analyzing part that hurts the most, going over every little detail and figuring out why this happened. However, this is necessary and a part of the letting go process.
    I don't think of broken or unbroken. I think of people who want to be healthy and those that have given up. Otherwise, I think I agree with you.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Cock blocker.

    Damn skippy. If I have to work so hard for my INFJ, I'll be damned if he gets it so easy...



    btw, I should mention, he's not technically my INFJ yet, so I'm actually still available if there are any interested INFJ male parties out there. *coughs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    Damn skippy. If I have to work so hard for my INFJ, I'll be damned if he gets it so easy...



    btw, I should mention, he's not technically my INFJ yet, so I'm actually still available if there are any interested INFJ male parties out there. *coughs*
    FAIL.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    FAIL.
    I'm obviously not even trying. If I were, I would have posted a prayer. But he beat me to it, so...

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    When the mind and emotions are in a state of anxiety and distress, the natural tendency is towards exaggerated thinking and tunnel vision. People often agonize themselves after a heartbreak by having moments when they only remember the bad and start to become overwhelmed with bitterness and anger, or the opposite, they remember only the beautiful cherished moments and heighten their sense of loss.

    There can also be a problem with projecting into the future. Feeling loss of an idealized future is irrational. The relationship ended because that idealized future was not an option.

    By holding your mind steady and remembering the good with the bad you realize that while there is some loss, there is also something to be gained. It holds anger and grief in check and you realize this was simply a necessary step in life.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
    Fear of reality creates myopic morality
    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
    (from Blue Velvet)

    I want to be just like my mother, even if she is bat-shit crazy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Thank you Synarch
    Good luck! You won't need it.

    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I'm obviously not even trying. If I were, I would have posted a prayer. But he beat me to it, so...
    Why can't you be happy for people?

    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I don't think of broken or unbroken. I think of people who want to be healthy and those that have given up.
    You're right. That's a better approach. I think I might adopt it.

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