My goodness. Such an INFJ male thing to do: "BY MY SOLEMN ENGINEERING OATH, AS DWALIN THE DWARF KING OF THE NIEBELUNG DECREED, I WILL WEAR THIS IRON RING AS A SYMBOL OF MY WORSHIP OF THE GODDESS TECHNE AND HER DARK SECRETS."
Holy shit, best line of the day. :yim_rolling_on_the_
Originally Posted by Synarch
Every man has two grandfathers and one father and nevermind how many uncles, great-grandfathers, etc.
You gonna wear every bauble that's important to you? There is only one ring that matters enough to wear.
When I was younger, I might have considered dating you, but I don't really know how you come off IRL and that would be the major deciding factor for me. Other posters have given better advice than I could about what to do looks-wise to attract more girls. I don't mind it, personally, but my sister and a friend (neither xxTJs - but both youngish and good catches) agree that the metal-slacker-with-long-hair look (not to say you are a slacker, but that seems to be an assumption they make about people who look the way you do) can be a total deal-breaker even if the guy is funny, intelligent and nice.
It's funny, I agree with you Tallulah, before you even said that I was planning on getting my hair medium length and to lose the goatee.
This is all cool advice. Now why are no XXTJ women here! You other people are awesome for saying you would (nice confidence boost), and this isn't to say I wouldn't, but my preferred partners are hardly posting. Ironic.
*Wondering who are your preferred partners*
And who said SJ girls??? lol
Your a great guy. I know you will find someone. I liked Synarch's advice about the colors, the shoulder length hair, and the goatee. I think it would up your attractiveness factor; however, if this is the true you, at least for now, since we all change; it is better to be loved for who you are than for who some one else thinks you should be.