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    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    In all honesty I think a simple apology and better behavior would do it for most people that have ever been unfortunate enough to get on it, but from my experience at least 80% of adult humans are incapable of apologizing, which is unfortunate.


    It is unfortunate because many of the people that I've decided to let go were very close to me once upon a time, and in a way still are. But all except one have just said "screw it, I don't need her anyway" instead of trying to understand my perspective.

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    Maybe they really didn't need you. Maybe you weren't worth the trouble.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 93JC View Post
    Maybe they really didn't need you. Maybe you weren't worth the trouble.
    Maybe. If that's the case then so be it. But IME it is more often the case that they are too proud to admit any wrongdoing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 93JC View Post
    Maybe they really didn't need you. Maybe you weren't worth the trouble.
    Maybe they were assholes. Maybe they were immature. Maybe they were lazy. Maybe they didn't care. Maybe, maybe, maybe. Who knows, right?

    It is worth noting which possibilities you chose to emphasize. Says a lot.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by 93JC View Post
    Maybe they really didn't need you. Maybe you weren't worth the trouble.
    Possibly. Another explanation: If Lauren is a giver, she could have drawn people willing to take advantage of her thoughtfulness and generosity. When she finally confronted the person with her needs, the taker decided the relationship wasn't 'free' anymore, and decided to move on to another sucker.

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    I never witnessed the few infjs I know to be prone to revenge, they are more the guys that kill in the heat of the moment.

    Very dangerous persons sometimes, prone to loosing their minds. I am glad I know the vulcan neck pinch
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Maybe they were assholes. Maybe they were immature. Maybe they were lazy. Maybe they didn't care. Maybe, maybe, maybe. Who knows, right?

    It is worth noting which possibilities you chose to emphasize. Says a lot.
    You can just call me an asshole outright you know, it won't hurt my feelings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 93JC View Post
    You can just call me an asshole outright you know, it won't hurt my feelings.
    I hate stating the obvious.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    I don't know why you're getting in a tizzy over it, it's not like I said "No one needs you, you're not worth the trouble."

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    Quote Originally Posted by 93JC View Post
    I don't know why you're getting in a tizzy over it, it's not like I said "No one needs you, you're not worth the trouble."
    No, you're too much of a chicken shit to say that.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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