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    I'm going through the possibility of heartbreak with my first love and not knowing what is going to happen because it's in the other person's hands for now. I am emotionally upset and in pain to the point of being nauseous enough to throw up this morning.

    I have no friends around here to comfort me, and emotions are the one thing that I don't fully know what to do with when it's really bad.

    I don't really have a youtube video, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silentium View Post
    I'm going through the possibility of heartbreak with my first love and not knowing what is going to happen because it's in the other person's hands for now. I am emotionally upset and in pain to the point of being nauseous enough to throw up this morning.

    I have no friends around here to comfort me, and emotions are the one thing that I don't fully know what to do with when it's really bad.

    I don't really have a youtube video, sorry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silentium View Post
    I'm going through the possibility of heartbreak with my first love and not knowing what is going to happen because it's in the other person's hands for now. I am emotionally upset and in pain to the point of being nauseous enough to throw up this morning.

    I have no friends around here to comfort me, and emotions are the one thing that I don't fully know what to do with when it's really bad.

    I don't really have a youtube video, sorry.
    You're not an NF. Just what do you think you're doing here?

    Anyway, since you've sneaked in this far... I suppose I'll offer what advice I can before calling security. Let it not be said that I failed to show compassion to those different from myself.

    First of all, if you feel like throwing up, just let it happen. You'll probably feel better once you do, because sadness can cause your body to build up excess mucus. Once you've done so a few times, the desire to vomit will go away. Do what you can to put yourself into a positive mood. Try exercising, going for a walk, eating whatever you're craving, and possibly losing yourself in a video game, argument, or other situation.

    Another idea, would be to try talking about your situation to someone online that you know would care about it. Eventually, the sharing and mutual analysis of the situation will make you feel somewhat cared about and able to deal with things, regardless of the outcome.

    So... that's the best I can think of for a non-NF. Anyway, good luck feeling better.

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    I'm genuinely having such a shitty time right now that this thread was exactly what I needed. I don't really see self pity as a negative thing, if even you could feel your own pain, who would be there for you - if you can't be for yourself?

    Boston by Augustana

    In the light of the sun
    Is there anyone
    Oh it has begun
    Oh dear you look so lost
    Eyes are red
    And tears are shed
    The world you must have crossed
    You said

    You don't know me
    And you don't even care
    Oh yeah
    She said you don't know me
    And you don't wear my chains
    Oh yeah
    Yeah

    Essential yet appealed
    Carry all your thoughts
    Across an open field
    When flowers gaze at you
    They're not the only ones
    Who cry when they see you
    You said

    You don't know me
    And you don't even care
    Oh yeah
    She said you don't know me
    And you don't wear my chains
    Oh yeah

    She said I think I'll go to Boston
    Think I'll start a new life
    I think I'll start it over
    Where no one knows my name
    I'll get out of California
    I'm tired of the weather
    Think I'll get a lover
    And fly him out to Spain
    I think I'll go to Boston
    I think that I'm just tired
    I think I need a new town
    To leave this all behind
    I think I need a sunrise
    I'm tired of a sunset
    I hear it's nice in the summer
    Some snow would be nice
    Oh yeah

    Boston
    No one knows my name
    Yeah
    No one knows my name
    No one knows my name
    Yeah

    Boston
    No one knows my name[YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0YzdXlGzis&feature=related"][/YOUTUBE]

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    i tried to upload the video from youtube but it didn't work. here it is: YouTube - Boston - Augustana (Version 2)

    just copy and paste that into your browser.

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    I'm self pity-ing that i'm not popular enough to be mentioned in the TypeC senior superlatives thread. wah wah wahhhhhhhhh.
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    This thread really fits my current mood lol:

    [YOUTUBE="-se48nUuLG4"]Maria mena - Self-Fulfilling Prophecy[/YOUTUBE]

    "Self-Fulfilling Prophecy"

    Self hatred grows in me like cancer,
    I canít locate its whereabouts but it's feasting on its host.
    I expected him to have the answers.
    I thought I taught him how to love me;
    Now he fears me like a ghost.

    Self-fulfilling prophecy,
    Youíre the only guaranteed loyalty;
    In this town,
    Full of violent mothers,
    Cheating fathers,
    Leaving lovers.
    I swear to you, Iíll never love again.

    This hunger grows inside me like a tumor,
    The dizziness just compliments
    This failure of a girl.
    Iím settled now,
    This show of mine consumes me,
    But every pound I shed
    Speaks volumes of my lack of self control.

    Self-fulfilling prophecy,
    Youíre the only one that dare speak the truth about me;
    In this town, with
    Well intentioned mothers,
    Starving daughters,
    Worried lovers.
    I swear to you, Iíll never eat again.

    [Instrumental]

    Self-fulfilling prophecy,
    You never fail to comfort me;
    In this town, filled with
    Violent mothers,
    Cheating fathers,
    Leaving lovers.
    Angry brothers,
    Starving daughters,
    Starving daughters,
    Worried lovers.
    I swear to you, Iíll never trust again
    Echo - "So are you trying to say she is Evil"

    DeWitt - "Something far worse, she's an Idealist"

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    Even though there are days that I feel self-pity I quite hate it and despise it, I see it as a weakness and completely unnecessary. Some times I get angry for even feeling down like that it sort of annoys me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Third Rider View Post
    Even though there are days that I feel self-pity I quite hate it and despise it, I see it as a weakness and completely unnecessary. Some times I get angry for even feeling down like that it sort of annoys me.
    Wrong thread for this! :steam:

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Third Rider View Post
    Even though there are days that I feel self-pity I quite hate it and despise it, I see it as a weakness and completely unnecessary. Some times I get angry for even feeling down like that it sort of annoys me.
    I pity myself for feeling like this. I'm the queen of general suckage.

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