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[ENFP] ENFPs:What type are you most attracted to? (romantic)

ENFPs: What type are you most attracted to?


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Chloe

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So... title says it all....
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my answer: don't know. :blush: IxTPs I guess. little J also isn't a problem, to balance things. and of course, if ISTP, small S with big portion of N. :huh:
 

Lady_X

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the funny individualistic types with attitude.
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Sentura

Phoenix Incarnate
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anyone with a non restricted intuition. like lady x said basically.
 

Amargith

Hotel California
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I'm dating a balanced INTJ and he really is my soulmate in every way (confidence and decisiveness, man, gotto love it) , though I've found myself at times also very attracted to INTPs (brains :drool:) and XNFJs (charismatic decisiveness :drool:)
 

Lady_X

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haha...i think we are though...i think we know exactly what we like. we just don't like to slap a label on it. ;)
 

Xellotath

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Minimum requirement: Must be N.
Dated 3-4 S in the past and they really dislike shifting from idea to idea. Not to mention I read meaning into things a lot. Just..seemingly endless conflict.
First choices: INFJs and INTJs. [In a perfect world, the INFJ would be low in Fe and high in Fi, then I would ..yeah..love it forever.]
Second choice: If I had to date an extrovert... probably an ENTP, because they're really funny. ENTJs are too intense for me and I have a bad history with ENFJs and their Fe.
Third, INTP, because Ti really amuses me, and I'm free to engage in philosophical debate anytime I want.

Not sure I would date another ENFP. I think the universe might explode if I do.
 

Into It

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Not sure I would date another ENFP. I think the universe might explode if I do.

I've dated many ENFP's- more ENFP's than all the other types combined.

But INF's are so cute :hug:, INFJ's are interesting so long as they are cool with goin along with my spontanaeity. I also had a really cool INTP girlfriend once, but I found I require a heart in my mate. INFP's are always wonderful, too, timid, poetic, philosophical...
 

Into It

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Minimum requirement: Must be N.
[In a perfect world, the INFJ would be low in Fe and high in Fi, then I would ..yeah..love it forever.]

Yes, yes, yes, yes!! To both of these things. A high Fi INFJ I fantasize about, but have never met.
 

Wyst

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In a perfect world, the INFJ would be low in Fe and high in Fi, then I would ..yeah..love it forever.

Yes, yes, yes, yes!! To both of these things. A high Fi INFJ I fantasize about, but have never met.

Eh? I thought INFJs were all (except for the outliers) hi-Fi... :huh:
Can you give me some examples of what you're looking for/not looking for?
 

Queen Kat

The Duchess of Oddity
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My ideal man:

- rarely says anything and listens when I'm talking.
- is a little crazy (in a good way) but still calm and tranquil.
- is down to earth and not as dreamy as I am. Makes sure that I'm not going to live a dream.
- likes things messy. Just like me.
- doesn't tell me what to do and does his own thing as well.
- is sweet.
- likes surprises.
- isn't needy.

I guess I'll never find him where I live! :smile:
 

Amargith

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Zombie??

This whole time I thought you were a siren!!.... :doh:

:devil: Even a Siren has her needs...you sure you enjoy being under my spell? ;)
 

ergophobe

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Man, I wish ENFP-ENTP actually worked out. You guys are great.

Why wouldn't it? I make it work internally on a daily basis. It's hard work, for sure but also quite fun.

;)

Essentials
* Someone I can admire, not just like or love - must have talent, passion and wit
* Someone who recognizes that I, much like the electric monk, can hold up to 16 contradictory ideas in my mind at any given point of time.
*Someone who finds me as irresistible as I do them
*Someone who enjoys listening as much as talking
 

simulatedworld

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Wow, clownmaster really likes a diverse range of people.
 
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