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    Default INFJs do ESFPs set you off?

    I've never wanted to punch someone in the face so badly. I read on the socionics site the ESfps are supervisors to INFjs...so perhaps this is the problem.
    I'm wondering if type relations are creating the annoyance?
    I swear I want to take this person out.
    So what have been your experiences?

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    Just the opposite, I get along with ESFPs very well
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    dang it, its personal.
    i guess this means i'll be outlining my plans for revenge (errr...poetic justice).
    i didn't want it to come to this

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    I tend not to be particularly close to them (since in general they don't get me at all) but I like them and get along well with them. I love the Fi, it works as some kind of a bridge since at least emotionally we sometimes understand each other.

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    My INFJ best friend tends to get thrown off by ESXP types, since he doesn't really "get" them, and they don't "get" him. When they conflict with each other it's particularly bad I've noticed. The inferior Ni conflicting with dominant Ni and inferior Se conflicting with dominant Se can be difficult, I need not say more.

    However, my friend got along very well with my cousin (ESFP male). They could relate hobby wise though, and I think that it was pretty beneficial for both of them.
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    Going by socionics, I could see how INFjs are put off by ESFps because of vulnerable Se in INFj, but ESFP should find a decent amount of similarity in INFj. Hence, the supervisor relation.
    I would think this means that INFj tend to feel somewhat inferior to ESFp, whether or not they got along because ESFp clearly understands and is inclined to "correct" an INFj in a way that makes INFj feel somewhat defenseless.
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    I get along with them. There aren't major conflicts nor annoyances, I just don't connect with them that well. Currently I've been hanging out in a group where this one ESFP girl who keeps telling me that I'm strange/weird/crazy but in a good way. It hasn't annoyed me yet.

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    Thudding, nearly meaningless emotion yay!

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    The inferior Ni conflicting with dominant Ni and inferior Se conflicting with dominant Se can be difficult, I need not say more.
    Yes! I think this is correct. When I'm trying to "connect", he thinks I'm showing off. And when he talks I think he's materialistic and rude.

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    Depends on the circumstances. Although there isn't much on David, i lean on ESFP the most out the 16.
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    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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