First of all, welcome to the board, Melly. Nice to see more ENFJs posting.
A lot has been said over time here at the forum about who makes the best match for ENFJs, and most of it goes to speculation or experience. You'll find that many ENFJs seem to enjoy long happy relationships with INFPs and INTPs, though I have more experience with ENTPs and ISTPs. It all depends on your level of energy and intelligence needs, or how much of the emotional aspect of the relationship you prefer. For instance, my sister, an ENFP, really likes xNTJs and INFJs. She likes the warmth and like mindedness of the INFJs but also really appreciates and is attracted to the T strength of the NTJs.
I will however wish to caution you - just from my experience - that ISTJs are your enigma and will probably not be a good romantic match. They have made great friends to me and I do enjoy their company quite a lot, but I find that beyond friendship, I'm way out of my depth with them. My ENFP sister on the other hand seems to be quite at home amongst them without any effort. They're very attracted to her.
eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
AIS Holland code
I tend to do best with people like myself. Two examples being an INFJ and an ENFP. I just want someone I can relate to and hang out with. Well, maybe a bit more than that but I find what I need with similar types.
-There is nothing either good nor ill but thinking makes it so.
I will echo Pink's sentiments about the INFP and INTP. I've only dated the INTP but I think an INFP would be awesome as well from what I have read.
Overall though I think I could be happy with anyone as long as they somewhat balanced .. and an N.
"That's the thing about girls. Every time they do something pretty, even if they're not much to look at, or even if they're sort of stupid, you fall half in love with them, and then you never know where the hell you are. Girls. Jesus Christ. They can drive you crazy. They really can."
So what's so great about INFPs for you guys? What's great about ENFJs for INFPs? Just curious as to what you people think, the ENFJs I've met would drive me totally insane or annoy the heck out of me in a romantic relationship.