The differences between NFPs and NFJs and the story who feels what.
A number of links and new terms came up.
Form this thread it looks that what NT could see something as self pity is just a way NF sort their feelings. This occured to me but I didnt have any real insights. But it was not thinking that this is so important for them.
Since don't relate to that trait. Since my emotional exchanges with others are minimal.
That NTPs will be somewhat baffled by my apprach.
While NTJ did not interfere for some reason. Maybe the are just scaning or they just don't care.
There is no point in doing that. Since we are in good realations and always have been.
But she needed time to get used to having a son like me and I have learned to keep my mouth shut. Alos I have learned how to use less Te in certain sitations. The problem does not exist anymore.