Nowadays I don't mirror as much or at all. I bring myself forward in different contexts instead. Using different ways but not always being at the front myself. If I am seen as very talkative and weirdly uppety up, then that's probably not me out of my shell. If I do get out I am awkward and have very few pinpointed questions that I want to know and then I just listen to whatever else it want to talk about.
Imo MBTI is psychology for the masses.