yes, for me anyways, I hate conflict. But sometimes I get sick of the self rightesnous that NFs sometimes come off with,because of ideals, and I'll admit I ccan come off very self righteous, but I try not to I try to look at things from a different perspective, and then when you point out an NFs flaws they get angry at you. Instead of being like maybe this person has a valid point, its more like NO THAT CAN"T BE TRUE. excuse excuse excuse. So I'm pretty conflict avoidant, and its more of I choose my conflicts carefully and sometimes I just feel like being an ass, and starting shit because it is entertaining to watch the other person getting pissed. yeah yeah, I'm bit of an asshole.