I've had this connection with ENTPs as well. I don't need money spent on me. I don't need grand gestures (those rather stress me out for some reason). They just seem to know instinctively what I'm about. And I like presenting them with something (anything at all really) that I knew right away was "them". Like remembering to tell a discouraged ENTP friend that he was "the king of what's in front of [him]" and he laughed to be reminded of his own words that he'd already forgotten. I didn't forget.
INTPs must be harder to come by, though I've known a few. All married of course. I have no reference on INTPs about this because I seriously dated just one, and he was no model to go by.