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    I know this is less personal and from an analytical perspective, and i think i've said this a few times but for any onlookers, this is as good a place as any to mention that the Feeling preference isn't correlated to neuroticism. Kind of counterintuitive, but true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greed View Post
    I know this is less personal and from an analytical perspective, and i think i've said this a few times but for any onlookers, this is as good a place as any to mention that the Feeling preference isn't correlated to neuroticism. Kind of counterintuitive, but true.
    I know that they are not correlated. I am simply curious about this.
    (just saying)

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    so iNtuitive has a MUCH HIGHER degree of correlation with openness as defined by the Big Five, that's ineresting. we love to learn.

    E/I and T/F make obvious sense for extraversion and agreeableness. neurotic = health, no?

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Quite Often.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Often

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    No, it's because I was constantly and wrongly scolded for being a "slacker" that "makes excuses".

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    Yes

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    No

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    Yes

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    Other people's troubles affect me hugely.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    No
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    Data for the necromancer

    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    The sense of inadequacy hits me every so often. It was worse a little while back when I was making up my mind about my career path. It's the irrational feeling of being not good enough. Failing to measure up to a near impossible yard stick for anybody with my background. Have to give myself a good shake to knock myself out of that mood. I like ladypinkington's whack a mole analogy. That's exactly what it feels like.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Ummm sometimes, but that's not the issue with insecurity...

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    No. Not at all. Love and appreciation is nice. It's mostly just needing a bench mark to evaluate my progress and what I need to work on next.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    I hardly ever recall dreams. Oh those that I remember, details fade away too quickly. So no.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    No, feelings are automatic. Making sense of them is a different issue.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    I do the opposite. I lose my appetite when I'm stressed.

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    I don't like seeing somebody close be unhappy. Their moods affect mine.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    By accident? No. The thought of accidentally poisoning somebody isn't something that crosses my mind. And if I buy something that they don't like. They can return it or not use it. I don't see why that would be an issue.
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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    A loooooot. As I like to say while driving, crossing streets, and sleeping alone: I'm very aware of my mortality.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Too much.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    Yes, even though it hurts to admit. I still feel like I need to prove my worth to others in order to feel good about myself.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    Not at all, but when I was little I did. I hung a rosary and a dreamcatcher on the wall above my head, and then the nightmares stopped. I know it's weird... but it worked.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Nope. I'm afraid my feelings will eat me alive.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    Yeees

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    It affects me a lot because I'm always so in tune with other people's emotions. I feel like I have a responsibility to help them in some way.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    No
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    I am interested what happens in a head of NFs when stakes are high and sitation is serious. How often you have a problem with this kinds of sitations?
    I know that NFs are very wide group so I will just ask a few general questions. People are free to answer only those with which they relate to.


    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    yes
    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    less then i use to
    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    nope
    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    when i was a kid
    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    yes
    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    nope
    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    nope i'm more afraid of them poisoning me
    In no likes experiment.

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    i dunno what else to say so

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    I'm often uncertain and a little scared of the larger world. At the same time I'm driven to love it and embrace it. I tend to see more of the uncertainty when there is nothing to interest me and I'm just stuck there having to go through the motions.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason)?
    It would be quite a relief, because then I'd have nothing to live up to. At the same time it would be annoying, because as an extrovert I need interaction.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    I need affirmation to know I'm on the right track. I have a lot of ideals, and I theorise a lot of what will happen in a situation, but without the feedback from the outside world my thoughts don't solidify. All I have is a theory of what it might be and what people might think. So it isn't really a need for love, as much as I value love and want it. It is a need to know. Because knowing their opinions gives me a hint of what things could be. And seeing what things could be inspires me to understand them and work toward them.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    Not very often. Occasionally I have nightmares about bombings and nuclear holocaust. They are a bit terrifying, but at the same time cool. I like horror movies. The worst nightmares are about loss or love, seeing terrible things that might happen with people you know.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Often. I am always in touch with it, but normally detached. It is a strange world.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    Not enough. I ultra-focus on solving the problem and things like food can be completely forgotten. I might drink too much water though.

    How much depression of another person affects you if you are close?
    It hangs on my mind a lot if someone I'm close to isn't seeing much reason to love things. I normally do well with talking through things with people. I don't really like people spreading unnecessary pessimism though. My reaction probably depends on the situation.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    I am aware of it. I don't spend too much time thinking about it though. I just occasionally ask people to double check things when something feels out of place.
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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?

    I have more insecurities rather than fears. I don't really fear much and I'd say I'm overall a pretty secure person in my abilities. When it comes to other people (my Achille's heel), I am constantly doubting myself.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?

    Yes, that is often on my mind, except I think there is usually a reason. I have the awful tendency to say the wrong thing but to be thinking the right thing, the words just get reversed because I second guess myself and come off sounding different than what was intended. This usually happens when I have to speak (or write) quickly, if I have time to think about what I'm saying then I'm usually okay, but when speaking with people I don't typically have the time to think the perfect thing which makes me anxious, and therefore messes me up more.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)

    I do have the need to be complete. For me however, other people are a smaller part of that. More so, I want to understand people, and myself. I don't need very many people to "complete" me, but I do need some.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?

    I have nightmares, but so does everyone, I don't think I have more than is average.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?

    I do worry about that sometimes because when things go bad I detach. I think I would always find myself again though, I hope I would.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?

    No, I tend to not eat if I'm unhappy.

    How much depression of another person effects you if you are close?

    It affects me immensely. It weighs on me, I feel selfish saying that someone else's depression affects me, but it does.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?

    Haha, I'm picturing a grocery store stocked with canned goods and next to the tomato soup is a can with a skull and crossbones, on accident, I grab the wrong one and poison my dinner guests... I'd never had that thought before, it's kind of funny in a (morbid) cartoon way.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Often, but I am able to push myself and accomplish what I choose despite the fears (not always, but more often than not). It makes life a bit exhausting.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    It's more the idea that no one will know me. The times people have disliked me the most, their reactions have been out of sync with the reality of the situation. It stresses me out when someone dislikes me because it makes reality feel quite random and chaotic to me. I don't dislike people, and instead I consider my own reactions to be reasonable for the most part. I dislike those who have treated me badly, but am not stuck in that mode if there was a reason to change it based on their new behavior. I'm not easily offended especially if the offense is unknowing or just miscommunication. People stress me out because they are so overwhelmingly complex, and every perception (including my own) has its own unique distortion. When you line up multiple distorted lenses, conclusions can become quite warped.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    I actually "need" to have someone in the world love me, but not all.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    Yes

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Not at all. Those times I can compartmentalize it away during stress and crisis are one of my inner strengths. I can hold it off and feel when I am alone and freed from consequences.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    In worst cases of stress and change it becomes difficult to eat. Three times in my life I lost the ability to eat for a few weeks and lost weight. That is more the concern.

    How much depression of another person effects you if you are close?
    Very little impact if I am in a position to do something or contribute some sort of help even if it isn't enough to completely correct the problem.
    Step into my metaphysical room of mirrors.
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    So I guess it means there is trouble until the robins come
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