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    See Right Through Me Bubbles's Avatar
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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Oh, well, depends on who I'm with. But when they do get to me, it's really bad and hard to shake off.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    I deal with this when meeting highly extroverted or outspoken people. I'm so afraid I'm going to say or do the wrong thing and come off as a total idiot...haha!

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    I don't know. It's possible? Well, I guess I wouldn't feel very complete if I wasn't loved...

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    Lately, yes. Very vivid ones. And I'm always relieved when they're not real.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Never. It's too ingrained in me; sometimes I wish I felt less.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    No?

    How much depression of another person affects you if you are close?
    Majorly. Sometimes I worry all night for the person. It can tax me just as much as them if I'm not careful.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?

    Nope...usually because I buy non-posionous things.

    Hope that helps some!
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    So far it looks like there is a balance in this traits. (more of less)


    The only thing that seems to clearly bother NFs is depression of people around them.
    What is understandable.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Constantly, and I'm always working to let them go and move beyond them.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason)?
    I expect people to dislike me and am surprised when they do like me.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    I only need certain people to love me, but I want the people I know to value me.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    If I'm stressed, I dream stressful dreams, but usually not scary ones.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    No, never. If that happened, it would be because I was dead.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    Yes.

    How much depression of another person effects you if you are close?
    If they are trying to gain attention, they bug me. But if they're not, and just legitimately sad and hurting, I want to help them and I feel like I "take on" the same emotions they feel, to some extent.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love?
    Erm, no. I am often afraid that I will be the wrong kind of mother or partner and "mess up" people with my incompetence. Luckily, grocery shopping is one of my more competent areas...
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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Typically, when they seem immediate. I think, obviously, they must be on my mind. If something of significance is happening, that is of substantial pressure for me to perform adequately, I will be more likely to feel anxious and insecure more often. If there aren't any particular stressors, I'm generally okay I think.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Not very often--it's not my first assumption that people won't like me. If I perceive certain slights from people without any particular reason I miiiight imagine they don't like me, but probably wouldn't give it much weight. There's almost always a reason.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)

    No...

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    When I've been stressed for a while, I do tend to get them. Also if I'm sleeping on a really bad schedule, and esp if I've been sleep deprived, yes. I get my fair share of good dreams too though.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Not at all, it's always been very intense. Even feeling numb and detached is in a way a strong feeling. Eh, sometimes I wish I could lose my ability to feel.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    I tend to eat/drink a lot less.

    How much depression of another person effects you if you are close?
    Well looking at how I've had a parent who's had depression while I was younger, I'd say it effected me rather a lot and rather badly.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?

    Lol no..

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    I will resurrect this one.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Not much.. I have maybe two insecurities/fears that even affect me and they are things that I personally can control. So I may get overwhelmed but it's never that bad.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?

    NEVER. In fact, I tend to like myself better at times when I'm alienated. I go more internally within myself and feel more confident in who I am (and I take some enjoyment in being the oddball that no one gets too.)

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    Nope, quite the contrary, I feel less complete if I get involved with someone. They would take my time and focus away from personal development. My friends give me some peace of mind away from my own thoughts, but even then, my close friends of over a decade only know and understand part of me.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?

    Rarely do I have nightmares... and if I do, they're rarely conventional. I do spend a lot of time in dreams being very busy and going through mazes but it's never overwhelming.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Nope... though I often feel that I don't understand strong emotions that most people have. This is just my strong T side at work really. I feel deeply but not the same as most people and its hard to explain.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?

    Hmm... well I eat a lot when I'm exhausted... but that's me subconsciously trying to induce a sugar coma to mean "the day is officially over, now you have to stop completely." :P

    How much depression of another person affects you if you are close?

    I do have strong, but selective, empathy at times. Typically being in my own state of depression first is what will make me more likely to feel empathy.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?

    No.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    All the time.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Quite often. It's entirely irrational. In fact, most people do like me once they get to know me, and Big Five tests usually put me at least in the ninetieth percentile in the "Agreeableness" domain, but I still can't help but think people won't like me.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    I do need feel loved to feel complete, but I don't know if this is the reason.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    No, not at all.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Yes.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    I don't know.

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    I usually feel bad that I can't do anything about it.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    Yes, I have always been careful to not buy poisonous products for the people I love. :rolli:

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    -fears, seldom. insecurities, more often.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    -when i was younger it was very frequently. now it is rare.
    i have been convinced otherwise too many times to cling stubbornly to that notion.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    -i do need to love and be loved to feel complete, but i don't doubt the good in myself or others the way i used to, so i'm not afraid..

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    -not really. i do have intense, and very strange dreams. but not many nightmares.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    -i don't think i could ever lose my ability to feel.
    at one point i actually wanted to, though.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    -yes, or sometimes too little.

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    -very strongly. however in these situations i focus on my T side and try to be the depressed person's advocate or sounding board. it's a good way to alleviate the bad feelings both they and myself are experiencing..

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    -lol.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?
    Every time I have to think about something uncomfortable.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Once someone criticised me.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)
    YES! Love is my life.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?
    No.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?
    Not really. When I'm depressed I can be insensitive though.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?
    No, I rather eat less.

    How much depression of another person efects you if you are close?
    I want to sleep with them. lol. Pretty much, I feel very involved.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people which you love ?
    No, I'm rather too careless.

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    How often your fears and insecurities get to you?

    On occasion. Not often, usually when spurred by something like a rejection or a specific kind of criticism from someone, particularly myself. I can be overwrought with this once I decide I failed at something which is rare when that happens but painful.

    How often you are afraid that no one will like you (for no reason) ?
    Almost never.

    Is it because you need to be loved to be "complete" ? (more then others)

    No. I am perfectly complete. I certainly do wonder about finding love and think it would be wonderful if/when I did.

    Do you have problems with nightmares?

    Not really. I have vivid dreams, in color, that I remember and sometimes want to write down because they were so eventful (adventure-filled) or contained great conversations.

    Are you ever afraid that you will lose your ability to feel?

    Every once in a while, yes. This is usually when I am retreating to get back in touch with Fi. I cut the world off sometimes and let myself feel numb before I can feel individual emotions again.

    Do you tend to eat/drink too much when you are unhappy?

    Not usually. I love food too much to let anything get in the way of its enjoyment.

    How much depression of another person affects you if you are close?

    I can be affected depending on how open I feel and how much I *want* to or how much I *let* it affect me. I know I can control the effects by controlling the interaction as well as how much I can detach. Detachment is handy especially when I think what the person needs is to either be left alone and deal with their own feelings and heal or if they need me to hold their hand and be the strong one to think through the cloudiness sometimes.

    Are you often afraid that you will buy a wrong product and poison people who you love ?

    Never. Is this really a concern for some people?

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