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    Default How to spot an INFJ?

    Any words here would be redundant, as the title sufficiently communicates my question.

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    This list isn't exhaustive, but it's a start.

    -Often sort of intense, psychic eyes. Where INFP's look like fairies sometimes, INFJ's can look like angels.
    -Walk like a ghost, legs first (whatever that means to you, haha, I'll leave it at that).
    -Nose can be a bit upturned (not always, but very often).
    -Usually quite thin.
    -Usually dress... hard to explain. An element of reserve there, but subtle drama, too. They are very good at mixing black with other colors, but not a lot of color usually.
    -When they smile for pictures sometimes their eyes remain relaxed, which can make their smile look phony (even though it probably isn't fake).
    -They can seem "off-limits" from afar, but once you get to know them, you won't find a better or more caring listener.
    -Dry sense of humor, sometimes making fun of others without them being aware of it, subtle puns not uncommon.
    -They often have an air of sophistication, even if they don't know this about themselves.
    -They would be horrified if they accidentally farted in front of you.

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    INFJ's can look like angels.
    -Walk like a ghost, legs first (whatever that means to you, haha, I'll leave it at that).
    -Nose can be a bit upturned (not always, but very often).
    -Usually quite thin.
    -Usually dress... hard to explain. An element of reserve there, but subtle drama, too. They are very good at mixing black with other colors, but not a lot of color usually.
    Hah this looks so weird in my imagination. A well dressed, ghost legged, angel wings, stick insect body and a pig nose. Hey you're right, that is SH to a T (well, the angel wings part at least) !
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    You can recognise an INFJ by the aura of golden wonderfulness that surrounds them at all times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Apollanaut View Post
    You can recognise an INFJ by the aura of golden wonderfulness that surrounds them at all times.
    Not that you're biased, of course

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmandahalf View Post
    Not that you're biased, of course
    Of couse not!
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    Just look for an ENFP and the friend next to them should be an INFJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maliafee View Post
    -Walk like a ghost, legs first (whatever that means to you, haha, I'll leave it at that).
    Could you explain this a little more?

    -Usually quite thin.
    Not all INFJs are thin, though many are. I've met a few that have a bit of weight on them.

    -Usually dress... hard to explain. An element of reserve there, but subtle drama, too. They are very good at mixing black with other colors, but not a lot of color usually.
    Ha. I was just wearing all black with lime green shoes and pink accessories yesterday. I like colors though. Everything I wear is fairly proper, but still dramatic and quirky.

    -When they smile for pictures sometimes their eyes remain relaxed, which can make their smile look phony (even though it probably isn't fake).
    I don't know. If I smile widely for pictures I look something like a cat.

    -They can seem "off-limits" from afar, but once you get to know them, you won't find a better or more caring listener.
    Very true.

    -Dry sense of humor, sometimes making fun of others without them being aware of it, subtle puns not uncommon.
    Dry humor is the best kind of humor! My NTP friends and I have so much fun with this.

    -They often have an air of sophistication, even if they don't know this about themselves.
    I know

    -They would be horrified if they accidentally farted in front of you.
    I guess? Never had that happen though.

    Quote Originally Posted by TucsonENTP View Post
    Just look for an ENFP and the friend next to them should be an INFJ.
    Yes. Or ENXP (meaning either ENTP or ENFP, or both), in my case. But there are more of them than there are INFJs.

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    They would be horrified if they accidentally farted in front of you.
    This is the only way you can be absolutely sure.

    And sometimes they have weird cat eyes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TucsonENTP View Post
    Just look for an ENFP and the friend next to them should be an INFJ.
    So very true.

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