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    How do you justify it when you insult someone as a joke, coz that's your type of bantering, and they take it seriously? And why do you feel the need to insult them in the first place? It's pretty much the same thing imo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    That's what I am trying to figure out. When people flirt with you and you respond how do they justify it if you take them seriously?
    That's like asking "Why are bushes bushy?" we could be here all night if we asked the ENFP's that question! I honestly don't think they have a reasonable (or understandable) answer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    ...They are better off using the internet for that, at least that way they have a less chance of hurting feelings and what not!
    This is the interesting thing, there seems to be a resistance to acknowledging that it can be really hurtful. For the partner watching on and for the target of the flirting.

    On some level, with some people, it's just cruel beyond a certain point.

    It surprises me when some ENFPs don't seem to grasp that? Though perhaps that's a type bias, expecting that NF automatically means caring etc. Idk, it just strikes me as odd. If it's upsetting your partner why not try and work on it... makes me think that attention from others is more important than anything?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    It'd make me feel better if you had your tubes tied.
    Ah, the hallmark of a poor debater who realizes his argument is baseless, personal attacks that have no bearing on the topic.

    Stay classy, baby.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    Ah, the hallmark of a poor debater who realizes his argument is baseless, personal attacks that have no bearing on the topic.

    Stay classy, baby.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Double entendres of a sexual or romantic nature? What is the purpose of this?
    They can be, but not necessarily.

    Personally, I think it makes the tired, bored, person feel attractive and appreciated. Which it turn makes my experience with them more pleasant. And allows me to appropriate some goodwill, extra merchandise, better/quicker service. All at the cost of some words and possibly several minutes of my time.

    And occasionally, the phone number of someone who isn't a self-absorbed, self-righteous, stick in the mud.

    We've met several nice couples that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Nyah, nyah.
    So, you are just here to troll?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    This is the interesting thing, there seems to be a resistance to acknowledging that it can be really hurtful. For the partner watching on and for the target of the flirting.

    On some level, with some people, it's just cruel beyond a certain point.

    It surprises me when some ENFPs don't seem to grasp that? Though perhaps that's a type bias, expecting that NF automatically means caring etc. Idk, it just strikes me as odd. If it's upsetting your partner why not try and work on it... makes me think that attention from others is more important than anything?
    On the surface they probably see it as "connecting with others" or "being friendly", but when you scratch the surface it's usually a need to be liked above all else. This has to come from the outside as they cannot get it from within because that would require introspection and strength.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    So, you are just here to troll?
    Yes
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    So, you are just here to troll?
    +1
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