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    I'm not a hopeless flirt. I got hurt to many times, so I guess flirting is useless for me anyways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    The only problem is one person's friendly is another person's flirting.
    That's why you have a discussion about it... I am going according to the definition of flirting earlier in this thread. I definitely don't agree with people trying to dampen their partner's enthusiasm just because they want them all to themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    The only problem is one person's friendly is another person's flirting.
    Yeah and I know what my "version" of friendly is (see prior description), so, if someone wants to INTERPRET my behavior (through THEIR OWN FILTER) to mean that I WANT THEM, that is on them, and not me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
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    Being an NT does not mean that everything is morally permissable or that all moral views must pass the logical sniff test. We are humans, not robots.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    If you can't stand the heat...

    Seriously, if you can't defend your questionable moral behavior against scrutiny is that my problem or your problem?
    :rolli: Sigh, stop telling others how to live. As long as they do not hurt people with their ways, who cares, honestly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    That's why you have the discussion... I am going according to the definition of flirting earlier in this thread. I definitely don't agree with people trying to dampen their partner's enthusiasm just because they want them all to themselves.
    yeah...i know what you mean babe. there is a difference and the person dating you should know you well enough to see it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    You get to know stuff about each other, you tend to talk about personal things, so the bond is very real. You connect...

    To me, those feelings are real. The flirting might be meant in a joking way and is more a means to an end, but the effect it has, is real, and creates a feeling of safety andtrust with the other person often. And that kinda intense bond is precious to me, so I do seek it out.
    ENFPs' love seems very diffuse. They love everyone, and equally. And there is no problem with that, but this is just in stark contrast to the way that others operate. To me, as an INFJ, it is a bit like emotional whoring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seeker22 View Post
    Yeah and I know what my "version" of friendly is (see above), so, if someone wants to INTERPRET my behavior (through THEIR OWN FILTER) to mean that I WANT THEM, that is on them, and not me.
    If I jerk you off (to maintain my analogy), is that ambiguous? Flirting is the promise of interest with plausible deniability. So, if someone says "Oh, I like you, too. Wanna go out?" you can always go, "What are you on about? I am just flirting."

    It's transactional. The flirter is exerting influence and this provides them with some sort of benefit, otherwise they wouldn't do it.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Being an NT does not mean that everything is morally permissable or that all moral views must pass the logical sniff test. We are humans, not robots.
    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    :rolli: Sigh, stop telling others how to live. As long as they do not hurt people with their ways, who cares, honestly.
    And the NF out-NTs the NT.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    :rolli: Sigh, stop telling others how to live. As long as they do not hurt people with their ways, who cares, honestly.
    Stop telling others to stop telling others how to live.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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