Apathy (mostly to build up energy),
Confronting the problem,
Rationalization (if possible),
Then healing (probably by being held, and being told everything is going to be alright, by someone you love).
"The life of the individual has meaning only insofar as it aids in making the life of every living thing nobler and more beautiful."
- Albert Einstein
I let myself be sad for a little bit, maybe write some stuff to channel it into something good, then do something mindless to get my mind off it. If it's really bothering me, then I have to tackle it head-on, or I get nothing else done.
Hugs are a quick way to speed up the healing process for me, though.
4w3, IEI, so/sx/sp, female, and Cancer sign.
My thoughts on...
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Well uh, for me I guess crying and being with myself and no other. Screaming if I want to. Wallowing if I have to. Howling to the full moon. Walk around in the city and seeing children play with each other usually breaks a smile and I feel happy about their interaction. If I am allowed by their parent I'd love to join in and play the vicious monster attacking them. Roar. :P
Usually only done with cousins. I love playing. So much fun. And the laughter one can relieve of one self.. Wah. I want to go out and play in the grass right now. But I can't. There's no grass in Kunming. :/ Chinese prefer stone. o.O Crazy. Oh, think of all the crazy stories is another fun thing to do. Whether they are sad or gory or happy or melancholic... they tend to end up a bit as I feel at the moment and gives plenty of analyzing to deal with, if ones into that.
Or staring at the tv screen and not listening to the story. Just seeing the characters as if they're out of context. That cheers me up as well.
But umm, write and sing and dance until everything fades into something else.
Is there any one human being who is not lost? o.O I mean.. I don't know what I mean.
No grass! Yeah when I did a stint in S.Korea, I missed grass too. And starry skies.
Stint? What's "stint"?
Yeah, no stars here but I'm going to zixanbana(It might be spelled like that but take into account that it is pinyin without tones) and I have heard there's supposed to be trees and grass and forests and clear skies!