I once worked with an ISTJ lady, who.. really tested me, and I would have to say.. was my WORST working experience.
No matter how friendly, how nice I was to her, I would get really snidy/smirky remarks I didn't appreciate.
In order to find justification for that kind of behavior, I was called 'too sensitive, ' when in fact, it takes 2!
I know I shouldn't take it personally, but when it happens to her when someone treats her the same way,, she didn't like it and found ways in which she could get me in trouble, which she never did, bc I worked hard and honestly, and I think it made her feel like shit. Consequently, I felt pushed into a corner, so i quit.
When people say we're too sensitive, I think it's an excuse for 'poor' behavior, TBH. Then there are times where I just say, "Whatev.." Or, what a classmate told me there is a saying in a particular part of the world:
"Not my problem."
If we do *best* with what we can, positively, in our situation/circumstances, then I think that is good enough, when our intentions are for the better.. for both.