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    Well, you can congregate here happily. What trials or tribulations do you face in your day-to-day life?

    Anyway, I'm also curious who you think are male ENFJs, I saw a list or two, but I'm not sure of the accuracy. I read an article about George Clooney and he seemed like a mature ENFJ.

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    I heard John Cusack is one

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    I heard John Cusack is one

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    I can see that, especially in High Fidelity. He has the ENFJ charm, he talks with his hands, and how fast he talks in monologues when he gets excited remind him of me.

    Don't know if this has anything to do with anything, but I think we both have a serious, emotionless face that makes people delighted when we show emotion and brighten it up! A girl I knew (ENTP) said that she felt she had to "earn my smiles."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cronkle View Post
    Well, you can congregate here happily. What trials or tribulations do you face in your day-to-day life?
    For me it's simply trying to keep everyone I interact with happy and coping with the blow-back when it doesn't work out. It isn't as black and white as the previous sentence makes it out to be but I feel that when people are in a negative mood it really drains me. In order to counter this I try to do everything I can to make the situation better.

    I guess on a more personal emotional level I have a great deal of trouble showing true emotion. I believe this is more a variety of factors that range from trust in people to the family environment I grew up in.

    Not sure if this was exactly what you wanted :p

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    I believe George Clooney is in fact an ENFJ. At least that's the prevailing consensus. That's what I took him to be.

    John Cusack is an INFJ, I think. Though I've debated ENFJ before. Close enough, certainly.
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    Abraham Lincoln is one too
    Everything the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" mentioned are pretty much ENFJ's traits.
    "Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters"

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    I'm not sure how the males control themselves. As a woman, I think I may be naturally tempered to rein myself in, but if I were a male ENFJ, I'd be hell on wheels. The inclination to conquer/conquest (not people in particular) would be so strong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    The inclination to conquer/conquest (not people in particular) would be so strong.
    It isn't the idea of conquer or conquest that is overbearing it is the idea we hold in our head. Everything else done is merely a symptom of trying to reach this goal.

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